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Do men really have commitment issues?
The myth is that men have commitment issues... The truth is that all people, including women, have commitment issues. Do you have a hard time moving a relationship along or inspiring your partner to commit? We oftentimes would rather hold onto our fear and our stories...
Does time heal all wounds?
The myth is that time heals all wounds. The truth is that skill heals all wounds. Feeling stuck on an ex? Afraid to date again? Getting over an ex can be tough… We’d like to bounce back, but when you’ve fallen hard for someone, thought he was the one, or just gotten...
Stop Freaking the F Out
The myth is that you shouldn’t be afraid… The truth is that you should be afraid. Pretending we don’t have fear keeps us closed off in our hearts, and naive. It suppresses this basic human emotion which has a ton of power for us if we pay attention to it. Ironically...
Commitment and a Stand for Love of the Healthy Masculine
The last week or so I've been writing about the healthy (versus unhealthy) masculine. And this final part in the five part series is one of the most important. Why even care about healthy masculine at a time like this? Because we need male allies -- men who care about...
What Does The HEALTHY Masculine Want in a Partner? Day Four
I didn’t want to write (or send) this blog today… I feel disgusted by all of the toxic masculine, all of the abuse and trauma and harassment that women (and men) face. While I had planned to continue with day four of our five part series on the healthy masculine,...
Day Three of What (Healthy) Men Want…
Have you been taking your dating life too seriously? Does it feel like a job? Are you ready for more FUN and playfulness? Or just need someone to listen objectively while you work through your frustration? The problem with dating is that most women don’t feel safe...
Day Two of What Healthy Men Crave…
Not getting to the third or fourth date? If you missed it, yesterday we kicked off our five-part series on what the healthy masculine wants in a partner… Not understanding this can keep you from getting into a committed relationship, and keep you stuck on the dating...
What Does the (Healthy) Masculine Want? Free Five-Part Series — Day One
Not getting enough dates? Not converting those dates into a fulfilling relationship? It’s a big problem that most women don’t understand what men want...or they mistakenly assume men only want one thing. Figuring out what men want is hard, isn’t it? It seems like it...
The 5 Ways Anger Helps Your Love Life (and the one big thing to avoid)
Nothing changes without a little anger… I hear a lot of “spiritual” teachers say that anger is a poison, or unevolved, or not “feminine.” But I want to tell you that is total BS. Nothing changes without anger. Anger is a spiritual POWER when used effectively. Even...
There are only 16 weeks left in 2018. SIXTEEN!
One of the biggest problems I encounter in women who are single is that they think they have plenty of time. They’ve been putting off dating, Or they’ve been dating with a closed heart, and finding all the reasons NOT to like someone. Or they’ve been attracting the...
Is true love hard to find?
The myth is, true love is hard to find. The truth is, true love is NOT hard to find… when you have the right attitude, skills, and support. My client Carol thought it was so hard to find a guy she was interested in. When we started working together she was frustrated...
Are you big enough to receive great love?
It makes me so mad to see women suffer. To feel their heartbreak and despair, especially when they feel disempowered about love and dating and men. Yes, we all want to have incredible love. But most people don’t ever reach the level of love for themselves that makes...
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