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A week went by and I was sad but not devastated. I felt like I gained my power back and positive energy started to flow my way. He did send me a brief email but I wanted nothing to do with this negativity anymore.
I put myself back on POF but started chatting with men more cautiously and with a better idea of what I wanted. Out of no where this guy, Sean sends me a brief message. The next day we are off the site and talking on the phone (everyday for a week). He asks me on a date and we hit it off from there. It was nice to have someone take me out to a nice dinner, then dinner & a movie. He stopped an hour out of his way to stop by and see me at work. Spent an hour with me and then continued his 4 hour drive.
He has joined me a handful of times at my sons baseball games. He can’t get enough of all of us and I can’t get enough of him. He wants to meet all my friends and family. I took him with me to my mom’s 70th birthday party. My family loved him.
I think my mom likes him more than me.
My children adore him. My 6 yr old daughter asked, “mom are you going to marry Sean because we like him?” I asked her why do you like him? She said, “Because when we talk or ask him a question he pauses looks at us and then answers. You mommy, when we ask a question run away.” He just hasn’t been around them long enough to tune them out. LOL
But kidding aside, that’s just him. I have never met a more patient person. I throw all “my crazy” at him (and I can get really frantic and overwhelmed at times) and his answer is, “Tell me what I can do to take some of it off of you and have you be less stressed”. I have never had any man do that before. He doesn’t command me, nor tell me what to do, or belittle me. He just is caring and patient with all of us (my 3 children and me). I have never felt so cherished and loved. I feel SAFE with him. Like I can give him my entire heart and know he won’t use me or manipulate me. I stopped questioning things like I use to. I’m not running to the “dollar store” psychics and asking what will be. I just know. It’s hard to explain. He may be my person, but I’m not putting the tittle on him and I’m not asking each day, like I did with so many other dates. I’m just loving him and he is loving me. With this, I have just stopped looking for my person. I have closed all dating apps and have no desire to look further and so has he. We are enjoying each other and this ever growing and evolving relationship. What will be, I do not know, but what is I know very well. I know we are love. That simple.”
Before joining Queens of Pleasure, I felt like I was stuck and I didn’t know how to get out of it. I felt like after the disaster of my divorce I needed to learn how to love myself and be kind to myself, before I could ever get back out there and date again.
Violet helped me understand that I worthy and deserving of love. I am worthy of self-love and worthy of the love of a great man. I will not settle for less this time around.
Queens of Pleasure has taught me how to love myself, how to be feminine and how to tune down my masculine tendencies. It has taught me how to value myself, and to know how much I have to offer to someone, but that person has to be able to offer me something wonderful also.
I am seeing someone, it’s a bit complicated as he’s leaving the country for 2 months to visit his family in Brazil. We have left our relationship status open, he is free to see other people and so am I. He has told me how much he cares for me and how much love and respect he has for me, and that he would like to continue to see me when he returns. I went out on a date with someone already, and I am scheduling a date with someone else for next week sometime. I will see what happens when he gets back from Brazil, but for now I will continue to date other people.
If you’re invited to join Queens of Pleasure I would say, “go for it!” I was unsure about the program when I signed up, but I am so happy I took the leap of faith. I have learned so much and feel so differently about life and love, it has changed me for the better.
I was also struggling with loving myself. That was probably the bigger problem! I know that a good relationship requires two whole people; co-dependencies are formed by people trying to fill a hole in their heart with someone else’s love. But I also knew that love is like the icing on the cake, the wind beneath my wings, the fuel for my fire that makes all my other goals and dreams and desires possible!
I knew I needed to learn more about how to have healthy relationship, and stumbled upon the webinar, watched it, and it really, really resonated with me 🙂 I sort of knew, I think, going into my breakthrough call that I was going to sign up – actually having the call and being listened to and having someone help me see that I deserved a great love. It was so incredible to see that as a real possibility. And also, I knew that if I could get the tools and support to figure out self-love, that it would be totally 100% worth the investment 🙂
Violet taught me to feel safe in my body, learning to feel pleasure and feminine energy (and that it’s safe to do so!) as well as healing from past relationships, just letting that garbage go! And permission and guidance to not settle.
If you are thinking about working with Violet Just do it! What are you waiting for? <3 You are worth it!! There is nothing more important than (self) love. It’s the foundation upon which everything else is built. And the sooner you learn the skills and tools, the longer you get to live a vibrant amazing life!
Violet’s words resonated with me, her warmth, her kindness, her caring, her understanding.
Violet taught me self love! I am happy to have healed what I was still holding onto from the past and feeling much better about men. The self love that I’ve regained through this program is everlasting and has strengthened every aspect of my life.
Joining Queens of Pleasure has helped me with my struggles in my love life, healed me, and that has also led to confidence and success in other areas of my life as well.
I watched a video on Facebook that was very intriguing. Mostly about how women hold the keys for turning new relationships into lasting love and common mistakes for why we push this away.
After watching the video, I spoke with one of Violet’s assistants and looked way back into my past history that included childhood sexual abuse to understand why I might be subconsciously sabotaging my present day relationships. I realized that I needed to make major personal change if I wanted to fulfill my biggest dream – to find and create deep lasting love!
That authentic deep self love is THE most important factor in success of any kin, and most certainly in dating.
Queens of Pleasure has helped me to love myself deeply, to bounce back if things are not going well or as planned. It has taught me that my particular expression of womanhood is already perfect – that I am neither too much or too little. It has helped me to understand that I can soften the hard edges that I have kept up as defense mechanisms. Overall, I feel much more empowered in my own skin!
I have been dating exclusively for 5 months. Although I did meet a wonderful man, he has been very caught up with a drama with his ex and has made it incredibly clear where I am on his priority list (no where near the top). I am happy to recognize this relatively early on and to be very ok with walking away. Instead of feeling like this is another example of failed relationship, I picture this as one quality man who is just one in a sea of attractive high vibration men who are available to me.
If you have struggled with issues of self confidence and know that this is a key roadblock to you finding lasting love, do this program now! What you put in is what you will get out. No matter what your outcome is, if you graduate with a deep sense of self love you will have accomplished the most important thing you can do in your life.