Hi, I’m Violet

I help smart, spiritual women to become, attract, and create lasting love. Stop chasing, searching, or settling, and start awakening to the love of your dreams! Consider me your Cosmic Matchmaker 😉

I’m an expert on
love, dating, and relationships.
 

It is my pleasure to help women rediscover their sovereignty in relationships, date with power, and change their lineage by creating healthy love and healthy families. I use embodiment techniques, spiritual practices, deep insight and intuition, and practical guidance as I serve women into the love of their life. I am a professionally trained coach, yoga teacher, and Reiki Master who graduated from Harvard and left the corporate world to follow my passion — empowering women in love.

Most of my clients are in a fulfilling, committed partnership within months of starting to work with me, and I’ve helped hundreds of women to find their life-long partner.  My signature program Queens of Pleasure gives you everything you need to go from single to successfully (and happily!) married.

I believe love is the most powerful force on the planet. Through love we can build healthy romance, healthy families, and a healthy world. It is time to integrate the masculine and feminine energy within us and within our partnerships. It’s time to heal our family systems and leave a legacy of love.

If you’re ready to:
  • Get into an amazing relationship with an incredible man, which gets better every day instead of fizzling out
  • Thrive in love while everyone else flounders on their phone and wastes time swiping through profiles
  • Stop attracting non-committal, emotionally unavailable men who are only interested in a physical relationship
  • Draw a man closer, even if you can’t seem to get to a 2nd or 3rd date or are stuck in a cycle of short-term relationships
  • Inspire him to commit, even if it’s been years since your last relationship

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“Before I met Violet, I was stuck in a revolving door of unsuccessful relationships…

I’d spend a few months with someone, then either a breakup or ghosting, leaving me bewildered and unsure of what I was doing wrong. I would meet people, but I couldn’t get anyone to stick around. Through our work together I learned how to change the way I date, and now I’m in a committed relationship with an incredible man who cherishes me.”

~ Susie

FAQ

How long have you been doing what you do, and how did you become a Love, Dating, and Relationships expert and mentor?

To answer this question, it’s probably best that I share with you a defining moment, and a resulting “compelling story,” that brought me to where I am today — coaching people like you on exactly what to do to attract a King and build a lasting, loving, healthy relationship leading to marriage. That defining moment in my life happened in 2012.

A few months prior, I had fallen in love with a man who I thought would be my husband. We had a great story — we met at a wedding — and he was so charming, smart, and successful…he even lived on an island in the Caribbean, and had me come visit him! I had suffered SO many breakups and short term relationships that never became exclusive in the previous years…after my divorce at age 27 (from my ex husband who after 5 years of a sex-less marriage ended up not wanting kids, but I did) it felt like I went from one heartbreak to another, and even men who I didn’t actually like were ghosting me! So when I met this guy, I thought “yes, all my suffering has finally paid off.” I was in therapy at the time so I believed it was working, and, a tarot reader pulled the marriage card, so I thought “this is it!” This guy was a breath of fresh air because I’d been trying online dating for the first time in my life for the past year or two, and I was exhausted. He seemed like the real deal, and we had mutual friends.

But little did I know that my world was about to come crashing down…After our romantic trip, a mutual friend called me out of the blue, with some very bad news. My boyfriend had been trying to sleep with one of our friends! I was shocked and devastated. My guy seemed like someone I could trust — I had even told him all about being sexually abused, and he was one of the rare men I told who accepted me instead of shaming me (a previous boyfriend had pushed me away during sex when I got triggered, saying “what’s wrong with you?”) Now when I asked Island Man about trying to sleep with a mutual friend, he denied it, and reminded me how much he loved me, and how strong our future was together. I kept asking myself, “how did I get into this situation at 32 years old?” “how did I end up nearly broke, dating a cheater, and still feeling unlovable?” “how could I ever break free and find a great guy who wants to marry me and have a family, when I’m stuck in my trauma, heartbreak, and emotional pain?”

Against my intuition, self-worth, and better judgement, I continued to talk to him, as we had planned to meet in New York the following weekend. He said he’d explain everything then. My heart loved him, my head was confused, and my gut felt all squirmy — but all the “signs” were pointing to him being my guy…and I had no idea how to date (he seemed like the best I could get) or get into a good relationship.

The pivotal moment (in addition to that scary, scary phone call), occured at the Los Angeles airport where I was waiting at the gate to board my Virgin America flight to New York. I had my red suitcase, was dressed up to look fantastic when I arrived to see him, and was nervously checking my phone since I hadn’t heard from him that day. Over the loudspeaker they called each zone, and I watched my fellow passengers board. My zone was called, but I stayed frozen…until a wave of empowerment, nausea, and relief crashed over me. It sunk in — I wasn’t getting on that plane. I kept saying to myself “what’s wrong with me?” But then I realized, there was no way I was going to allow myself to fly across the country to be hoodwinked by a narcissistic player. There was no way that I had survived sexual abuse, divorce, ghosting, online dating, and painful breakups to go down like this. No way, no how.

My higher self took over. I heard them announce last call for boarding, and I watched them close the door to the gate. And a smile came over my face. Until I realized the cost of the ticket I had just thrown down the drain…which stung, because I was barely scraping by as a yoga teacher, Reiki master, and business coach at the time. I had my MBA from Harvard, but I had done a one-eighty to start over and find work that fulfilled my heart, after getting burnt out and fed up with corporate. Standing in the airport, I asked, “was it really worth it to waste hundreds of dollars not going on this trip, just because of some fears?” My heart knew that it was. My heart knew it was worth thousands of dollars to take care of myself and say NO MORE to crappy situations keeping me from true love.

Luckily, the universe was on my side again, just waiting for me to choose myself, which I had done by taking action to not getting on that plane…I went to a gate agent and said “I was supposed to be on that New York flight. But I just found out my boyfriend has been trying to sleep with a friend, and I couldn’t make myself walk through that gate. Can you help me?” She smiled and said “absolutely sweetie — let me give you flight credit for your whole ticket.” And boom, just like that I had a $425 voucher.

As I took a taxi back to my house, ironically just two hours after taking one to the airport, I decided NEVER AGAIN. Never again would I give my power away to a man, never again would I waste my time online dating guys who were “below” me only to have them treat me like crap, and never again would I fall in love with a lying, cheating, smooth-talking narcissist. Never again would I feel ashamed for being a survivor of abuse, and never again would I walk on eggshells and pretend I was “cool” with casual dating when I needed and wanted so much more. In that taxi, I made a decision right then and there that I was going figure out this whole “love thing” even if it killed me. I was going to create a HEALTHY, loving, lasting partnership no matter what it took. That decision obviously paid off — I am now married to Jason Lange, the man of my dreams (I had a dream about him 3 weeks before we met at a meet-up event on lucid dreaming. Yes!). But at all started in that taxi, at that very moment, when I made a commitment to immerse myself in absolutely everything that had to do with relationships, love, dating, and sexuality. I had already read every book under the sun, gone to therapy, done online dating, and explored matchmakers, but none of that was working. There had to be a better way and I was determined to find it.

So I hired relationship coaches, bought online trainings, went on retreats, attended crazy Tantra workshops, saw healers, and found that most of it didn’t work! So I found my own way by piecing together the best of what they offered and customizing tools and insights of my own from my failed marriage and the ten years of dating in between that and finding my King and husband Jason. I trained as a love, relationship, and sexuality coach, in addition to my earlier training as a business coach, and I learned how to help women find their feminine essence and heal from heartbreak and trauma. I began working with women one-on-one on their love lives, and interestingly, my business coaching clients began asking me to coach them on their love lives too! One of my first clients met her husband with my help, and when I started my group program, 6 out of the 8 women in that first group met their partner within 6 months. I realized this — more than anything else I’d done, from management consulting in New York City to working for a fortune 500 company to advising the CEO of a non-profit to leading a department at YogaWorks — helping women find lasting love was my passion, my gift, and my calling.

I cleaned up my past and started teaching successful, spiritual women how they can do the same. I watched not only their love lives drastically improve, but their financial and creative endeavors too as these three aspects of life are all related. How can you be fully empowered and confident in life when you don’t have a strong, supportive partner and someone to care for you emotionally, especially after you give so much to others?!? I saw with delight how my clients starting getting promotions, bonuses, raises, new clients, new deals and more, out of the blue because they had healed their relationship patterns and found their feminine power. We had engagements, weddings, babies, the whole nine yards, and I have loved every minute of it because I get to work with the most incredible women on the planet.

I have made a commitment to dedicate the rest of my professional life to helping other women be empowered in relationships, heal from heartbreak and trauma, find their femininity and vulnerability, and learn how to date effectively in order to get to a commitment.

Since then, I’ve worked with hundreds of clients to find love, and I’ve trained and spoken to thousands of women; I’ve lived my fantasy of a fairytale wedding with the man of my dreams (literally) and traveled around the world, and I’ve even taken my VIP clients to Paris. I’ve created Queens of Pleasure, my signature system with the four critical steps every woman needs to take to go from single to successfully engaged. Those four steps are to: 1) create a solid foundation of self-love, self-respect, boundaries, and healing; 2) date effectively (online and in real-life) as you change your patterns of attraction and flirt with confidence; 3) master communication verbally and non-verbally including being vulnerable and balancing your own feminine and masculine energy; 4) understand commitment and partnership and what it takes to build a lasting love with healthy attachment.

I work with women just like you who are decisive, hungry, and ready right now for love. Women who have been humbled by the dating scene or past relationships, and who won’t go another day feeling lonely or rejected or closed off in their hearts. Women who know they are meant to do more than just go to work and to the gym each day…who know they are meant to serve the planet through Love and that relationship is the biggest spiritual journey, and the most worthwhile one, they can ever take.

Who are your clients?

  • Smart, single moms who want to find a great role-model for their kids — a true partner for the second half of their life…
  • Self-aware, professional women who haven’t been able to attract a high-quality match, one who meets them at every level and excites them…
  • Grateful survivors of heartbreak or trauma who know there’s something deeper than a superficial dating strategy that’s keeping them from finding lasting love…
  • Compassionate creatives and entrepreneurs who’ve lost touch with their feminine essence and are ready for soul-shaking partnership and a higher level of passion to get to the next level…
  • Women in their late thirties and early forties who are one-thousand percent ready for a family of their own and feel like time is running out…

What makes you different from other dating coaches?

Although we will absolutely cover “what to say in the text” and other dating-type things, you have me as a femininity, vulnerability, and relationship consultant. I work with the inner and outer principles for LOVE (something most dating coaches actually miss!) and I look at your love life (or lack thereof) and your relationship success from an integrated, embodied, practical, and spiritual perspective. What that means to you is that you get a soulmate-love coach who isn’t afraid to lay out how things *actually* work in the real world. It takes way more than affirmations to find love and I’m not afraid to speak the truth of what’s going on in your interactions with men, or where you’re hiding from relationship or self-sabotaging. This is because I am OBSESSED with results and know it takes more than just “where to meet a great guy” — although I’ll help you with that too because I write every one of my client’s profiles and help them find the best places to meet amazing men in their area.

With me, you can expect warm, loving, compassionate support AND a mirror to your deepest truths and what is holding you back. I can see patterns — including broken dating and relationship patterns — like a genius because I’m a chemical engineer by education and I love systems and synthesis. This is to SERVE you so you don’t have to go years repeating the same relationship mistakes or attracting the same type of guy or getting stuck at the same part of the commitment process. My clients get into great partnerships faster than anyone else because of this. Now, I am also very sensual and feminine and I don’t try to hide it either — I love my body and I love being a woman, and through hanging out in our tribe of incredible Queens you will feel the same supreme confidence in your own radiance and magnetism.

What type of personality do you work best with and what is expected of me?

The Queens of Pleasure program was created for women who are absolutely excited and wholeheartedly committed to going from single, heartbroken, and confused about dating, to being in a healthy, passionate, lasting relationship right now. This means not running around all day long, beating yourself up anymore saying “why didn’t he text me?” or “what’s wrong with me?” This program was created for you to put practices and systems in place within just a few weeks, which will lead you to attracting the exact right type of partner for you and to KNOWING how to convert that first glance or first message into a long-term commitment.

Being a successful, spiritual woman myself, I’m known to work best with other successful, spiritual women; people who are committed to their success in love no matter what, who are super ready to get going and just want to know exactly what steps to take to find their person and build a life together. My clients often tell me “just tell me what to do and I’ll do it!” Consider what you’ll do with me to be the “school-for-love” that you never went to when you were younger and certainly didn’t learn about from your parents or friends. This program is a highly effective rocket-booster for your love life and your personal, feminine power — it gives you everything you need to know to have fun dating and get into a fantastic relationship, fast. You WILL be expected to take consistent, feel-good action. No excuses anymore, and no complaining either — you’ve probably already wasted too many years complaining to your girlfriends or blaming men. This is an exciting and very different way of thinking, with world-class support from me and my incredible team while you achieve this life-changing goal of true love and a partnership which goes the distance, for the next 40 to 50 years of your life.

For what type of women is your program NOT going to work?

Please know I’m very selective in who I work with and cherry-pick my clients, choosing to (gently) turn away people who aren’t suited for my program and won’t get results. The Queens of Pleasure program is not for those who are currently in an abusive relationship — please find a local shelter and qualified therapist. The Queens of Pleasure program is also not for those who are in a relationship with someone who is married (unless they are in an open relationship), as I cannot condone that or help you until you have left that situation.

Oftentimes I work with women who are: newly single, recovering from divorce and heartbreak, or single for a long time (sometimes even decades) — I’ve even worked with virgins in their 40s who were able to find a committed, passionate partnership with my help. However I also work with women who are in relationship but it’s not at the commitment level they want, or the partner has started to pull away, or they are afraid the partner will leave or cheat or there’s some other trust issue. I do work with women who are lesbian or bisexual. I also work with women who are interested in open relationships, but 99% of my clients are seeking monogamous, committed, long-term partnership leading to marriage and that’s my specialty.

In terms of personalities, I’m just going to be blunt — I am not able to help women who are more identified with being a victim than being a victor. If you are feeling the need to constantly complain, justify your circumstances, or blame others, it will be hard for me to help you get results until you are ready to claim your dream and take 100% responsibility for your love life now and going forward. Other types of personalities I won’t work with (without exception) are the whiner or the chronic skeptic, as well as individuals who constantly make excuses for not getting their assignments done or challenging every aspect of the program. If you are one of these people, I gently and respectfully ask that you not book a call and I hope you understand why. We’ll probably just not work well together and I wouldn’t want you to waste your time or money. Does that sound fair? I am very protective of our community and I want our group of women to be uplifted by one another and be inspired by each other’s integrity and commitment to the group and the assignments.

What exactly is the Queens of Pleasure program and what does it include?

Queens of Pleasure is named as such because I am devoted to helping each woman reclaim her inner Queen and be treated as such. Pleasure to me means feeling good — something most women have lost sight of with online dating, bad relationships, and other sacrifices you’ve made for years, losing sight of who you are and what you deserve. Our program begins with module 1: creating a rock-solid inner foundation to manifest any loving relationship you want. This means knowing how to self-soothe and nurture yourself through any anxiety or fear around dating, and changing your limiting beliefs to empowering beliefs with the proper mindset. This also means knowing how to set healthy boundaries, ask for what you want, stay in your power, and stand your ground without pushing someone away. Lastly, this foundation means healing from the past — past relationships, past karmic patterns, past trauma and abuse. And giving yourself the tools to regenerate and self-heal any time you want, as well as understanding the keys of your emotions and sensations to unlocking wisdom in navigating partnership. This is the right heartset to be vulnerable, open, and trusting. Our clients come back to these tools again and again even after they are engaged and married.

The second module in Queens of Pleasure teaches you how to date and flirt like a pro. This means being able to attract anyone, anywhere, anytime by understanding patterns of attraction and having the skill to change your patterns of attraction, plus flirting in a way that’s embodied and empowered instead of desperate. You will understand the neuroscience of love and why you have chosen particular partners and what to do differently in the future without settling or giving up on chemistry. This also means opening and readying your heart to date and enter into relationship. You will learn the practical tools for effective online dating, I will write your profile for you and help you select the right pictures, and you will also create a roadmap of where to go to meet great potential partners in your area. Don’t worry if you live somewhere rural, we’ve helped people in Wyoming, Montana, rural North Carolina, as well as New York City, Chicago, San Francisco, Miami, and even in countries like Azerbaijan, Singapore, Spain, and Ivory Coast. Half of my clients meet their person online and half meet their person in real life, so I will be encouraging you and mentoring you on how to do both.

The third module in Queens of Pleasure will teach you to master communication verbally and non-verbally including being vulnerable and balancing your own feminine and masculine energy. This means understanding deeply the different facets of the feminine, as well as shadow or unexpressed energy within yourself that may be subconsciously sabotaging your relationships or pushing away the right potential partners. You will learn not only about feminine energy but you will have practices which safely allow you to express and embody feminine energy so you can find your own unique feminine essence and date authentically and magnetically. You will also learn how to identify shadow material and red-flags in the people you meet so you don’t waste months or years or even weeks with a wrong match. In this module you’ll also learn how to ask for what you want, receive help, and maintain a strong connection with a masculine partner so you can stop accidentally emasculating them. This will help all of your relationships with the masculine, including at work, in your family, and with your friends.

In the fourth module, you’ll learn how masculine and feminine energies make commitments differently, so you can get to second dates, fifth dates, exclusivity, engagement, and beyond. You’ll learn about the neuroscience of attachment, and find out your attachment style and how that is impacting your dating and relationships. We have had women go from being single for 8 years to being engaged in less than 6 months after starting our course so you’ll never have to settle for casual dating again. Now matchmakers will charge ten thousand dollars just for a few dates — without helping you with any of the real tools you need to make a date turn into a relationship — because they just want to get you dates but have no interest in getting you love. My focus is always on love and relationship, as smoothly and quickly as possible. As a bonus to this module you’ll also receive tips and tools on how to keep the passion alive in your relationship and how to have more enjoyable intimacy to keep the partnership strong and satisfying.

Does this really work?

Yes! The result of our work is an approach to shifting your mindset, heartset, and skillset so you can feel confident, empowered, feminine and vulnerable with healthy boundaries, attract the right partner for you, and master the tools needed too take the relationship as far as you want including walking downt the aisle. Check out our incredible client results here.

What results can I expect?

You can expect to:

  • Learn how to deeply and unconditionally love yourself — a lot of my clients tell me this is alone is worth the investment in themselves
  • Set healthy boundaries and regain your time, confidence, and power
  • Develop skill in saying no, and asking for what you want
  • Heal from the past including exes, old flames, trauma and abuse
  • Clear negative patterns like attracting unavailable men or men who just want intimacy
  • Learn how to be appropriately vulnerable and speak your truth even when uncomfortable
  • Integrate your head, heart, and body so you show up in the world as the empowered, magnetic woman you know you are — as a Queen of Love
  • Unleash the power of your emotions so they fuel you and put you into motion instead of hurting yourself or others
  • Become emotionally resilient — develop the ability to move through your emotions quickly so they don’t derail you from your day or your goals or get in the way of your relationships
  • Heal and change your lineage and family patterns and dynamics
  • Overcome shame, guilt, and fear of abandonment and fear of rejection
  • Understand your body — what she is telling you, what she needs, when she’s had enough, and what does and doesn’t feel good for her
  • Know how to better watch out for red-flags and warning signs in potential partners
  • Soothe yourself and manage your anxiety especially in the early stages of dating
  • Learn how to meet potential partners in real life in your area, without having to go to singles events (although you’ll learn how to make the most of those and of speed dating if you want)
  • Get an awesome online profile customized 100% to you, unlike any other woman’s, that attracts all the right potential partners to you and make them say “wow, I was so drawn to you and impressed by your profile”
  • Find out which apps are best for you and learn hacks for how to use them more effectively and efficiently so you don’t have to waste so much time swiping
  • Text like a champ and have him coming back for more and communicating with you more often
  • Create a pre-date and post-date ritual so you show up feeling fabulous and radiant, and stay calm afterwards
  • Know what questions to ask on a date or in the getting-to-know you phase of dating so you can be open but discerning and take good care of your heart
  • Develop a resilient, growth mindset in dating so you are always learning and growing and having FUN with dating
  • Date more effectively and efficiently so you can meet your partner sooner and stop wasting time with the wrong ones — date smarter, not harder
  • Stop settling and selling yourself short, but also stop being so picky or emasculating that you miss out on good opportunities or accidentally push away the right guys
  • Flirt with so much fun and ease, instead of feeling desperate or awkward
  • Feel chosen no matter where you go or what you look like
  • Develop and enhance your feminine energy and essence so you can attract the right partner for you, have fun while doing it, and keep the relationship interesting
  • Learn how to date multiple people at the same time, without feeling guilty, if you so choose
  • Open your heart and believe in love again
  • Receive help from a tribe of powerful women all cheering you on and wanting you to shine even brighter, who reflect your true self back to you when you’re feeling low
  • Move into a healthy partnership with commitment by knowing how masculine and feminine energies make commitment differently
  • Effectively navigate from dating to exclusivity to engaged to married
  • Get some tips and tools for having better intimacy, even if you’re waiting until marriage or it’s been years since you experienced passion

Can I contact some of your former clients to see what it’s like to work with you?

While you can do as you see fit and our clients are happy to sing our praises, I maintain client confidentiality and respect deeply my clients’ privacy and journey. I ask that you make your own decisions from your heart, and when you’re a successful graduate you will have the same peace of mind I offer my clients, that other women won’t be reaching out to you all the time — I know you are busy and your time matters, as does theirs. Does that sound fair?

How quickly can I expect results?

That depends on how quickly you can make the inner shifts and how coachable you are. Some clients are absolutely loyal to the practices and my proven system, follow what I lay out for them, and experience new love within just a few weeks that leads to engagement and marriage (one of my clients met her guy 6 weeks after starting to work with me, and was engaged 3 months later, and married 15 months later, or just a year and a half after she joined the program, despite having been single 8 years and divorced from an ex who was abusive and cheated). Most clients are in a great relationship within 6 months of starting to work with me. And it has nothing to do with your looks, your location, or any other external factors. How YOU show up — on your first call with us, and in the program — is the number one factor in how quickly you’ll find love.

How can I guarantee that I’ll get more love for myself, in record time?

Do all of your homework and practices as laid out in the course. Do the practices daily. Attend every live group call (or listen to the recordings) and leverage all of your one-on-one calls with our mindset and heartset mentor. Ask questions on the calls and in the secret Facebook group. Reach out immediately when you feel stuck. Support the other Queens and encourage them — participate in the community with gratitude, humility, and positivity. Be totally committed to your success in love more than any story from the past. Take ownership of your relationship destiny. Understand that this is a process, a proven one, which works if you take action and implement all of the steps. All of my clients who have diligently applied every step of Queens of Pleasure and let go of their victim-mentality have successfully found love in significantly less time than they would on their own. AND they have also gotten promotions, raises, bonuses, new clients, plus they’ve written books, worn a bikini for the first time from losing so much weight, and many other benefits from being in their feminine power. The average time a woman is single in between relationships — let alone good, healthy relationships which some women never even have had — is five years. My clients get into great relationships on average in six months.

Violet, based on everything I’ve read and heard of about you, I know you’re the one I want to work with and learn from. What are my options for getting started with you?

Congratulations on making the best decision ever on your love life! (until you say “I Do” to the right partner, that is!) I’m happy to mentor you to achieve your relationship goals if you’re ready to do the work. The best way to work with me is in my 60 day Queens of Pleasure program. Here are some of the results you can expect:

  • Learn how to deeply and unconditionally love yourself — a lot of my clients tell me this is alone is worth the investment
  • Set healthy boundaries and regain your time, confidence, and power
  • Develop skill in saying no, and asking for what you want
  • Heal from the past including exes, old flames, trauma and abuse
  • Clear negative patterns like attracting unavailable men or men who just want intimacy
  • Learn how to be appropriately vulnerable and speak your truth even when uncomfortable
  • Integrate your head, heart, and body so you show up in the world as the empowered, magnetic woman you know you are — as a Queen of Love
  • Unleash the power of your emotions so they fuel you and put you into motion instead of hurting yourself or others
  • Become emotionally resilient — develop the ability to move through your emotions quickly so they don’t derail you from your day or your goals or get in the way of your relationships
  • Heal and change your lineage and family patterns and dynamics
  • Overcome shame, guilt, fear, and other negative emotions
  • Understand your body — what she is telling you, what she needs, and when she’s had enough, and what does and doesn’t feel good for her
  • Know how to better watch out for red-flags and warning signs in partners
  • Soothe yourself and manage your anxiety especially in the early stages of dating
  • Learn how to meet potential partners in real life in your area, without having to go to singles events (although you’ll learn how to make the most of those and of speed dating if you want)
  • Get an awesome online profile customized 100% to you, unlike any other woman’s, that attracts all the right potential partners to you and make them say “wow, I was so drawn to you and impressed by your profile”
  • Find out which apps are best for you and learn hacks for how to use them more effectively and efficiently so you don’t have to waste so much time swiping
  • Text like a champ and have him coming back for more and communicating with you more often
  • Create a pre-date and post-date ritual so you show up feeling fabulous and radiant, and stay calm afterwards
  • Know what questions to ask on a date or in the getting-to-know you phase of dating so you can be open but discerning and take good care of your heart
  • Develop a resilient, growth mindset in dating so you are always learning and growing and having FUN with dating
  • Date more effectively and efficiently so you can meet your partner sooner and stop wasting time with the wrong ones — date smarter, not harder
  • Stop settling and selling yourself short, but also stop being so picky or emasculating that you miss out on good opportunities or accidentally push away the right guys
  • Flirt with so much fun and ease, instead of feeling desperate or awkward
  • Feel chosen no matter where you go or what you look like
  • Develop and enhance your feminine energy and essence so you can attract the right partner for you, have fun while doing it, and keep the relationship interesting
  • Learn how to date multiple people at the same time, without feeling guilty, if you so choose
  • Open your heart and believe in love again
  • Receive help from a tribe of powerful women all cheering you on and wanting you to shine even brighter, who reflect your true self back to you when you’re feeling low
  • Move into a healthy partnership with commitment by knowing how masculine and feminine energies make commitment differently
  • Effectively navigate from dating, to exclusivity, to engaged, to married
  • Get some tips and tools for having more pleasure and better intimacy, even if you’re waiting until marriage or it’s been years since you experienced passion

At this time I am only offering VIP packages (one-on-one coaching with me) to graduates of my 60 day program, in 6 month increments.

Ok, I’m ready to do this for myself, but I have a couple of questions. Can I call you?

Good! Sounds like you’re ready to step into your future of romance, love, passion, and partnership! Yes, just set up a call with someone from my team at www.violetlange.com/talk for your free 45 minute Breakthrough to Love session where we can see if it’s a good fit for both of us and make sure we can help you. I’m excited to see you succeed in love and I am honored to be the one to help you. Let’s get going!

Devoted to Love,

Xoxo Violet Lange

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