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The myth is, being loving means giving and giving. The truth is, being loving means giving and RECEIVING. So many women think “I give and give and give. I’m attractive. Kind. Successful. Why can’t I find love?” Many of these women think they are empathetic. But the...

The myth is, dating is like a merry-go-round. The truth is, dating is NOT like a merry-go-round. Did you know? 33% of people online have never met anyone from online in person. They are just on the merry-go-round. Why? That’s the metaphor they are using for dating --...

The myth is, you shouldn’t be picky when it comes to love. The truth is, you should be picky when it comes to love. Your partner is one of the most important decisions, and investments, you will ever make with your time, your love, and even your money. Making a bad...

Do you have the 3 month or 3 year “curse”? Do your relationships never get QUITE as far along as you’d like? If so, there’s a pretty good chance your relationships are getting decimated by self-sabotage. This is SCARY, because you’ve probably worked hard to get that...

Yep, I’m going to go there today.   To the place where a lot of women don’t want to go...the deep not-so-pretty truth of why most women aren’t getting anywhere near the amount and quality of love they deserve.   Everyday you probably see (in real life or on...

The myth is, you should always follow your heart.   The truth is, you should NOT always follow your heart.   My client Teresa used to get into any relationship that “felt right”...but often times the guy would stop calling after a month or two.   She...

The myth is you should be friends with all of your exes. The truth is you should NOT be friends with all of your exes. So many women think they need to be polite… That it’s “rude” to not text him back... Or that it’s “harmless” to meet up with an ex. Why is it that...

I want to share today a crazy part of my story you haven’t heard before… When I was 19 at a retreat in college they asked us to share our greatest fear. At that time in my life, nearly 20 years ago, I felt so unlovable. Deep down I felt unworthy and broken. My...

So many women attract men who treat them poorly -- in obvious ways like cheating, but in non-obvious ways too like subtle put-downs or withholding. What’s up with that? When my client Rhonda came to me, she had been attracting guys who seemed “nice” on the outside,...

When Eva reached out to me, she was in a rough spot… A guy she’d been dating had totally gone cold -- ghosted her. When he finally did come back around, he gave an ultra-lamereason for it, and ended things. Eva felt devastated and alone. She had such a big heart, took...

How is your mindset when it relates to men? Everyone has actually a different definition of what it is to be a good man. But so many women are not conscious of what that actually means to them. I speak with hundreds of women every month, every year. And what we find...

So many women I speak to want men to share more... They want to know where they stand with a date or new romance. But so many women also get this part of dating and relationships totally wrong. They misinterpret the guy and end up getting anxious and self-sabotaging....