The myth is, dating is like a merry-go-round.
The truth is, dating is NOT like a merry-go-round.
Did you know? 33% of people online have never met anyone from online in person. They are just on the merry-go-round.
Why?
That’s the metaphor they are using for dating — up, down, round and round, not really getting anywhere.
It’s enough to make me sick (I also don’t like the teacups at Disney :))
How much of your precious time and love have you wasted on go-nowhere men, and old patterns again and again?
There IS a much better metaphor, and system, for dating.
How you experience dating, and your life, will depend on having the right tools and support, AND it will depend on the way you see it.
Do you see your life as a school, with lots of lessons?
Do you see your life as work hard and then die, with lots of work?
Or do you see your life as an epic movie, where you are the director and can create anything you want?
I have helped women completely rewrite their movie and turn it into a love story.
Lisa was used to attracting non-commital men, who felt good at first and then bailed and left her feeling worn out and used.
Through our work together, she completely changed who she attracted, and is now dating a successful, smart man who plans amazing dates for her.
She is dating differently too — with way more power and choice. Editing out old characters, deleting scenes, and writing in new romantic plots.
Have you forgotten that you’re the director of your own movie?
Have you gotten stuck on the merry-go-round when your heart is ready to SOAR?
There are 5 months left in this year. FIVE!
Within that time frame you can be in an amazing relationship by the holidays. But only once you decide to get off the merry-go-round.
And to do that takes hard work and a commitment to yourself and to love. It takes tenacity, courage, and resourcefulness. It takes humility to ask for help and learn something new.
If that’s you — if you want a new dating life, a new love, and a happily-ever-after, let’s talk.
I’ve got a few Breakthrough to Love free call openings this week for women who are ready like you to make some magic 🙂
Just go to this link and pick a time and we’ll talk soon.
Xoxo, Violet
PS it’s amazing how fast our lives can change — with technology and innovation we can break patterns that would have taken decades to resolve in therapy. I love working with women who are creative and ready for a new story. If that’s you, grab some time on my calendar for a free Breakthrough to Love session. We’ll look into what’s gone awry, what’s going well, and what your happily-ever-after looks like. Just pick a spot now because I only have a few times open for the rest of the summer: www.violetlange.com/talk
