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In my Facebook Live video last week on how to draw a man closer, there were quite a few women who commented and said something that shocked me…  They said, “when I try to be vulnerable it doesn’t work.”  Whoa.  This took me by surprise for two reasons.  One, I feel...

If you ever wonder...why do I have to do "work" to attract my partner? Or, Why aren't men stepping up and doing their work too? The good news is there are decent guys out there who are becoming even greater. The bad news is that a successful relationship does take...

How funny is it that we pretend or hide our feelings with men! How many times have you said, or heard another woman say, “Oh, I'm fine.” “I'm good.” But really, you know it’s not the truth. Sometimes this pretending happens because we’re angry… Sometimes it happens...

When a man makes eye contact, do you immediately look away? If you like someone, do you have a hard time showing it? My worst flirting experiences were as a teenager. There was the time I accidentally spit my gum on the boy I was dancing with in gym class in middle...

My heart is so soft right now, having traveled through India recently, including Varanasi, one of the oldest (if not the oldest) cities in the world. This whole trip has been an invitation for me to love more fully...to open even more… Why? Because India is so rich...

Conventional wisdom says people just grow apart, are too busy with their jobs, or have too many options now with online dating. Conventional wisdom also says to just “wait around” or “stop trying and he’ll show up...” But this conventional wisdom sucks, and that’s why...

I notice that a lot of women complain men only want the physical -- not real relationship. Guess what? Women have something similar. We have our companionship glasses on. And this is what I mean if you walk around and everywhere you go, you're like, Maybe that could...

Does it happen to you? Does it happen to you more often with men that you've been meeting online? Does it happen later, after you've been messaging a while, or does it happen right away? I think that every woman who's dated in the modern world has experienced this...