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If you're not in relationship, I know the holidays can be a tough time. I can't tell you how many times I had Thanksgiving Day single, and in fact, for whatever reason, I had three major breakups right before Thanksgiving, a few weeks before Thanksgiving. November...

Thanksgiving Day is a super important time to connect with friends and loved ones, and sometimes it can feel so lonely to be sitting solo at a big table of couples. If you don't have a romantic partner, this is an important time to start envisioning the story of...

We oftentimes hide the parts of ourselves we’re ashamed of…even from our partners. My favorite things to hide? I used to be embarrassed to admit that I’m a survivor of incest, that I’m mildly addicted to work and to food (as a way to avoid my feelings), and that I...

  He doesn’t even live here! He already has two kids! When do you know if you should just cut something off? How do you EVEN KNOW what sort of trauma, or baggage, or crazy stories he is bringing into the relationship? Sometimes that stuff doesn't get unearthed on...

              When I went through my divorce, for the first three years after that, I literally felt like I needed to tell everyone that I went on a date with that I had been married and that I went through a divorce. It was almost...

Do you feel like men don’t ever want to commit? Do you use the excuse that “they’re just guys, they don’t really want a relationship” Well, that’s B.S. And by B.S. I mean a Belief System. It’s your Belief System that says men don’t want to commit. My Belief System is...

I'm all for relationships I think that love and sex combined are the best things in life... the essence of life, the glue that holds us together. YUM! But did you know the average person spends 5 years single and looking for love in between relationships? Do you want...

We hear this term baggage thrown around all the time... "He has baggage, or he has a crazy ex, or he's been divorced, or he has kids" And it can be really easy to label a potential partner as having too much baggage. Ironically, we can actually do the same thing to...