One of the biggest problems I encounter in women who are single is that they think they have plenty of time.
They’ve been putting off dating,
Or they’ve been dating with a closed heart, and finding all the reasons NOT to like someone.
Or they’ve been attracting the same sort of guys.
All three of these things are wasting your precious time, and keeping you single instead of being in a supportive, loving, passionate relationship.
Maybe these women are afraid of the unknown…
Maybe they’re afraid of rejection…
Maybe they’re afraid of finding out how hard dating and commitment actually are.
But I’ll tell you what:
I have heard the CRAZIEST fears! I talk to women every day and I have heard it all.
And talking to over 1,000 women I have discovered that NONE of those fears actually matter.
One of my most terrified clients had the most amazing transformation.
She went from near panic-mode when she first talked to me, to being in a fantastic relationship with a man who takes her on trips to Mexico, picks her up every time for their dates, and compliments her every day.
And their passion is electric! She tells me “oh my God Violet! I can’t believe he’s so hot!”
She said she couldn’t even imagine a love like this was possible three months ago.
Her fears could have kept wrecking her love love.
But at the end of the day (and the end of her being single), her fear didn’t actually matter. It did not keep her from love.
Because she CHOSE to take action anyway and not let the fear win.
She moved forward and got my help in spite of her fear.
Fear is in the mind. Danger might be in the body if you really are in a harmful situation. But fear is just a product of our thoughts.
And our thoughts can be changed, quickly.
Our brain is our most powerful tool, when used effectively.
Is your mindset about love on autopilot? Are you letting the fear win?
Is that really how you want to live your life? Watching opportunities for love slip away to other women?
It’s Fall. There are only 16 weeks left in 2018. SIXTEEN!
This is the time of year to make changes, to get a fresh start, and to get into a great place before the holidays.
We just went through some massive energy shifts and things are opening up for you to have exactly what you want.
But you have to step through the doorway.
Look, the clients who have the biggest wins in love are often the ones who come to me the most scared.
All that fear energy gets changed into positive energy, into self-belief, and into effective action.
And the results are remarkable.
Having fear is not a problem. Letting it drive your love life is.
Don’t let fear hold you back. You deserve a life of love, someone to cuddle with you by the fire with some eggnog, someone to rub your back after Thanksgiving dinner.
You deserve to move out of fear and into possibility. Into the magic of incredible love and past the loneliness.
PS if you’re ready to make the last 16 weeks of the year the most loving, powerful moments of 2018…if you’re ready to attract an awesome partner to start the New Year with…and if you’re ready to stop the loneliness, suffering, and heartache…now is the time. I help women go from single to smitten and committed in as little as 6 weeks. If you’re ready to win in love, set up your free Breakthrough to Love session here: www.violetlange.com/talk