by Violet | Feb 14, 2018 | General
I want to bust two myths today that always come up this time of year! First, you might think that Valentine’s Day is the best day for love… And, second, you might think that Valentine’s Day is all about the man sweeping the woman off her feet… But these aren’t...
by Violet | Feb 7, 2018 | General
Girl, let me tell you about a place called Fantasy Land. No, not the Magic Mike sorta place… 😉 I’m talking about the “someday maybe he’ll be ready” sorta place… The “someday maybe he’ll change” sorta place… The “I just know we’re meant to be together, even though he’s...
by Violet | Feb 6, 2018 | General
I have a story to tell…it’s kinda scary for me to share this, but here goes… A few weeks ago, a friend of mine texted me that she’d seen Jason’s profile on Bumble… And I totally freaked out. I called him (I had gotten her text right after dance class) and...
by Violet | Feb 4, 2018 | General
The precise thing that your partner found so attractive is often the first thing to go out the window once we get into someone. We stop speaking our truth when we used to be unapologetic. We shut down sexually when we used to be so hot. We withhold our feelings when...
by Violet | Jan 4, 2018 | General
How committed are you to your dreams and desires in 2018? Our relationship with ourselves directly influences our outer world. Are you going all the way with yourself? Are you ready to put a ring on it — as in death-do-us-part sorta commitment to your dreams and...
by Violet | Dec 31, 2017 | General
Have you ever wondered what’s REALLY stopping you from attracting an absolutely incredible love? Have you ever thought “omg I must be really messed up! I must be blocked! There’s something wrong with me!” I’m here to tell you that’s crap. You are divine perfection....
by Violet | Dec 29, 2017 | General
Unfortunately, most of us didn’t learn how to reclaim our feminine light from our mother. We didn’t always see our father treat our mom with respect. We probably didn’t experience super healthy relationships role modeled for us. They definitely didn’t teach us...
by Violet | Dec 28, 2017 | General
This time of year is all about letting go of old stories, challenging our limiting beliefs, and setting ourselves up for success in 2018 — in life and in love. One of the biggest problems I see during this time — which could instead be a time of optimism...
by Violet | Dec 18, 2017 | General
I get asked every week, “how do I rekindle my desire to date?” “What if I want love but I’m getting exhausted or still getting over an ex?” Imagine a time in your work life when you felt totally burnt out… Most likely you found a way to show up — because...
by Violet | Dec 15, 2017 | General
I about fell off my chair when I heard the truth of what’s really happening in the love life of many dating coaches…. We all know there’s a lot of bad advice out there… So I want to help you with three things to avoid in hiring a dating coach, so you don’t get burned....
by Violet | Dec 12, 2017 | General
There’s a reason she’s called Mama Earth… Or Mother Nature… Because she is full of LIFE and full of CHANGE. Anything that changes is the feminine energy in our lives…from thunderstorms chasing the sky to our hair color to our wild emotional heart....
by Violet | Dec 9, 2017 | General
I promised to share with you Seven Ways of A Deeply Feminine Woman…and number 5 is my favorite!!! Why? Because so often we run away from this key ingredient in our femininity… We run away from our EMOTION. We either pretend we don’t have them, stuff them down,...