by Violet | Dec 8, 2017 | General
Any single mom knows this down pat. Because you’ve had to create the most insane schedule, the most insane life to take care of yourself and your kids. Many women I work with are single moms, so I get it. And yet they still find a way to date (oftentimes, after...
by Violet | Dec 7, 2017 | General
There are so many things in life we can get upset about. So many things that go wrong or don’t feel good. Maybe something happens you didn’t expect like your dog puked on the carpet or your computer crashed. Instead of getting super serious and frustrated...
by Violet | Dec 5, 2017 | General
This week I am so excited to speak with you about the seven ways of a deeply feminine woman. Last week we were talking about masculinity as some of you have said, “I keep getting told I’m too in my masculine, what does that really mean?” This week I will be...
by Violet | Dec 3, 2017 | General
If you’ve ever noticed that you get to know someone and then they leave the relationship after just a six weeks or a few months, you’re probably moving too into your masculine. If you’ve ever noticed that you are attracting men who don’t really...
by Violet | Dec 1, 2017 | General
Why aren’t men stepping more into their masculine? Why do I have to do all the work? These are common complaints I hear from successful women… I get it. You want a man who plans for you, who “claims” you, who has direction for his life and knows what he wants....
by Violet | Nov 28, 2017 | General
I keep hearing from so many women…”he says I’m too in my masculine…but what does that even mean? I wear lipstick, I look nice, what is he talking about?” I want to clear up some myths and explain what this actually means. One of the myths is that you can’t...
by Violet | Nov 24, 2017 | General
If you’re not in relationship, I know the holidays can be a tough time. I can’t tell you how many times I had Thanksgiving Day single, and in fact, for whatever reason, I had three major breakups right before Thanksgiving, a few weeks before Thanksgiving....
by Violet | Nov 24, 2017 | General
Thanksgiving Day is a super important time to connect with friends and loved ones, and sometimes it can feel so lonely to be sitting solo at a big table of couples. If you don’t have a romantic partner, this is an important time to start envisioning the story of...
by Elizabeth Johnson | Nov 19, 2017 | General
We oftentimes hide the parts of ourselves we’re ashamed of…even from our partners. My favorite things to hide? I used to be embarrassed to admit that I’m a survivor of incest, that I’m mildly addicted to work and to food (as a way to avoid my feelings), and that I...
by Violet | Nov 16, 2017 | General
He doesn’t even live here! He already has two kids! When do you know if you should just cut something off? How do you EVEN KNOW what sort of trauma, or baggage, or crazy stories he is bringing into the relationship? Sometimes that stuff doesn’t get...
by Violet | Nov 13, 2017 | General
When I went through my divorce, for the first three years after that, I literally felt like I needed to tell everyone that I went on a date with that I had been married and that I went through a divorce. It was almost...
by Violet | Nov 12, 2017 | General
Do you feel like men don’t ever want to commit? Do you use the excuse that “they’re just guys, they don’t really want a relationship” Well, that’s B.S. And by B.S. I mean a Belief System. It’s your Belief System that says men don’t want to commit. My Belief System is...