by Violet | Mar 27, 2018 | General
I am so pumped to be talking about something that I find to be a very divisive topic. Something that’s really misunderstood and that causes a lot of angst and a lot of insecurity for so many women. If you just looked at it from the outside in, you would think...
by Violet | Mar 21, 2018 | General
Sometimes I have to catch my breath… Because of so much beauty in the world. I get the privilege of seeing women blossom in love… to witness their courage as they dissolve the walls around their hearts… to admire their sassy playfulness as they learn to flirt.. to...
by Violet | Mar 20, 2018 | General
I saw the movie A Wrinkle in Time last night… And I had to laugh about the dad in the movie, who is so “on-purpose” that he leaves his family for four years, lost in the universe! The masculine thrives when he is living his purpose and taking action towards his dream....
by Violet | Mar 15, 2018 | General
In my Facebook Live video last week on how to draw a man closer, there were quite a few women who commented and said something that shocked me… They said, “when I try to be vulnerable it doesn’t work.” Whoa. This took me by surprise for two reasons. One, I feel...
by Violet | Mar 12, 2018 | General
If you ever wonder…why do I have to do “work” to attract my partner? Or, Why aren’t men stepping up and doing their work too? The good news is there are decent guys out there who are becoming even greater. The bad news is that a successful...
by Violet | Mar 12, 2018 | General
How funny is it that we pretend or hide our feelings with men! How many times have you said, or heard another woman say, “Oh, I’m fine.” “I’m good.” But really, you know it’s not the truth. Sometimes this pretending happens because we’re angry… Sometimes...
by Violet | Mar 8, 2018 | General
When a man makes eye contact, do you immediately look away? If you like someone, do you have a hard time showing it? My worst flirting experiences were as a teenager. There was the time I accidentally spit my gum on the boy I was dancing with in gym class in middle...
by Violet | Mar 6, 2018 | General
My heart is so soft right now, having traveled through India recently, including Varanasi, one of the oldest (if not the oldest) cities in the world. This whole trip has been an invitation for me to love more fully…to open even more… Why? Because India is so...
by Violet | Mar 5, 2018 | General
Conventional wisdom says people just grow apart, are too busy with their jobs, or have too many options now with online dating. Conventional wisdom also says to just “wait around” or “stop trying and he’ll show up…” But this conventional wisdom sucks, and that’s...
by Violet | Feb 23, 2018 | General
I notice that a lot of women complain men only want the physical — not real relationship. Guess what? Women have something similar. We have our companionship glasses on. And this is what I mean if you walk around and everywhere you go, you’re like, Maybe...
by Violet | Feb 22, 2018 | General
Does it happen to you? Does it happen to you more often with men that you’ve been meeting online? Does it happen later, after you’ve been messaging a while, or does it happen right away? I think that every woman who’s dated in the modern world has...
by Violet | Feb 20, 2018 | General
I have a big problem to talk to you about today… And that’s the issue of not trusting…YOURSELF. Sometimes I talk to women who are so hungry to change their love life they are decisive and committed to making this part of their life freaking awesome and willing...
