I want to bust two myths today that always come up this time of year!
First, you might think that Valentine’s Day is the best day for love…
And, second, you might think that Valentine’s Day is all about the man sweeping the woman off her feet…
But these aren’t actually true!
What is the best day for love?
The best day for love is the day you CHOOSE to make love your number one priority. The best day for love is TODAY.
This means letting down your walls, breaking through your fear of commitment, and recognizing that love doesn’t just “happen”…
Like everything in life, love comes to those who do the work for it.
I wish it were different, but I can’t tell you how many women I talk to in their 40s who thought love would just show up, but haven’t had a successful relationship in a decade…
So many women who “hope” that this time it’ll be different but keep attracting the same non-commital men.
Valentine’s Day is a beautiful day for love…if you take the time today to really say YES to love in a meaningful way…
(which can start with booking a call with us to get the insight and help you need for love to work for you now).
The second myth I want to bust is that Valentine’s Day is all about the man making grand gestures for the woman…chocolates, roses, champagne, jewelry…
These are nice outer representations of love, and I myself ADORE roses and chocolate and all the things!
But the deepest meaning of Valentine’s Day might surprise you…
The deepest meaning of Valentine’s Day is remembering that this level of love is available for you when you connect to yourself first.
The biggest problem with most dating advice is that it’s all about the man…
Did you know the truth of it is about connecting to yourself?
Whenever women make it about the man, they suffer.
Why?
Because it was never about the man and him giving you happiness.
It is not your job to fix him, or convince him to chase you…
It’s your job to love yourself so deeply, express your truth, value yourself, and rise into your embodiment of a QUEEN…
In that state of self-love and ecstasy and acceptance, all love flows to you.
And in that state, not only do you receive love (and chocolate and all the things)…you ARE love.
Life is a flow of love, and it starts with you.
Xoxo, Violet
PS if you’d like to become a Queen of Love, and attract a man devoted to you, adoring you next Valentine’s Day like the goddess you are, let’s talk. Today can be the day you change the trajectory of your love life forever! Find a time here at www.violetlange.com/apply for your free Breakthrough to Love Call <3 <3 <3
