by Violet | Dec 31, 2018 | General
There’s one thing that can kill your love life. And I bet it’s not what you think it is… It’s not about picking the wrong dating app, or texting your ex, or making the first move. The real destroyer in your love life is this: Upleveling...
by Violet | Dec 31, 2018 | General
Is it your boyfriend? Husband? Random dude at a party? I think New Year’s Eve is the most romantic holiday, second only to Valentine’s Day. But it kinda sucks to be alone on NYE. How incredible to kiss your love, or better yet, wake up in his...
by Violet | Dec 29, 2018 | General
Where are you holding back when it comes to love? Are you turning away from someone’s gaze? Or looking down? Are you putting off going on meetup or getting out and about where you could meet someone with similar interests? Are you creating drama in your relationship,...
by Violet | Dec 28, 2018 | General
Mmm. Love! What could be better? Did you know a 75-year long Harvard study found that RELATIONSHIPS are the number one predictor of happiness and health? Not your bank account, your house, or even your vacations (unless those things are shared...
by Violet | Dec 26, 2018 | General
Do you want to feel happy again about love, with a perfect man for you, but are feeling heartbroken and stuck? Maybe you didn’t even realize how much you needed love, and for how long you’d been putting it on the bottom of your to-do list, until the recent...
by Violet | Dec 22, 2018 | General
Before I met my husband, I spent some painful holidays alone. Did you fill up this time of year with errands, but when it comes to the holidays themselves like Christmas Eve, do you feel empty and sad? Of course some years I had Christmas dinners with...
by Violet | Dec 19, 2018 | General
The hallmark of a great relationship is that it ENHANCES your entire life… Hotter passion, more money, higher promotions, deeper creativity, sexier beauty, stronger trust, a better quality man…the list goes on and on. Why would you ever have to...
by Violet | Dec 19, 2018 | General
You fall in love with someone, you are giving them your heart and receiving a rush of sensations, emotions, and pleasures. YUM! You fall in love with a flower, you are giving it your pure attention and receiving its beauty. You fall in love with a...
by Violet | Dec 13, 2018 | General
Ahh. Friday. I LOVE Fridays! What would you do on Friday night IF you had an amazing man? What sort of dates would he surprise you with? What sort of trips or adventures would you want him to plan? How would FEEL knowing he’s there for you...
by Violet | Dec 13, 2018 | General
The myth is that you should just follow your heart. The truth is you should NOT just follow your heart. Dating can be dangerous — what if you end up with the wrong guy? What if you miss out on the right guy? What if you accidentally ruin a...
by Violet | Dec 13, 2018 | General
The myth is that you should play it cool if you want love. The truth is you should NOT play it cool if you want love. If you’re feeling nonchalant about love, or hardened, or cynical, I have news for you… That’s not sexy to men, or to the world....
by Violet | Dec 11, 2018 | General
The myth is you need to wait in relationship. The truth is you need to act in relationship. Not by pressing for things to happen, but by taking action for yourself to feel GOOD in the process! I’m currently dealing with a health thing, and I am...