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I’m just curious...on a scale of 1 to 10, how fully are you allowing yourself to be seen by the world? (with 1 being a hermit and 10 being absolutely radiant and expressed)   Ok now I’m also just curious, on a scale of 1 to 10, how boldly are you sharing your...

I was almost 38 when I first started trying to get pregnant…   It took me ten years to find my partner (which is why I’m so devoted to helping women find their guy in weeks and months, not decades)...   And now I was worried it would take me another four or...

Are you taking dating and love WAY too seriously?  Are you responding to his messages like a deal-maker, or a love-maker?  Ironically, the more serious of a relationship you want, the lighter you need to hold it and the more fun you need to have.  I am NOT saying to...

There are only two more days to be one of our contributors to CAASE…   And I have a surprise for you :)...   You may already have heard that I’m doing a special matching campaign where every dollar you contribute is matched by me AND by CAASE, which triples...

If you don’t know about Heather Urness yet, you will.   She’s a total bada$$ rockstar babe and a former Queen client of mine. In the last year, she launched an incredible non-profit called The Powerful Girl Project, which helps young women build healthy...

I am a survivor of sexual trauma. If you’re reading this, you probably are too -- 1 in 3 women are (and those are just the women who report, meaning the actual number is much higher).   While the work I do to help women create healthy relationships is SO...

Do you ever feel bad for a guy you like, and you want to help him?   Or do you ever have a crush on someone, and think the best way to let him know you’re interested is by helping him?   Have you ever offered to help a man, or chimed in with advice, and felt...

Do you wonder why he doesn’t respond to your messages?   Do you go back and reread your texts, wondering what you said wrong?   Do you swing back and forth from “playing it cool” to being really flirty and warm, and not know what to do when?   The truth...

I remember going to parties or out with my friends and feeling so hungry for male attention…   I didn’t know why men didn’t approach me!   I thought I was smart, and interesting, and cute...but for most of my 20s and some of my 30s, I watched the...