I remember going to parties or out with my friends and feeling so hungry for male attention…
I didn’t know why men didn’t approach me!
I thought I was smart, and interesting, and cute…but for most of my 20s and some of my 30s, I watched the good-looking, successful men approach my friends…or just walk past me.
It seemed like the more I tried to get the attention of great men, the more I was friend-zoned.
Or, the more I beat myself up! Shaming myself and blaming myself, which only made me feel more shy and awkward.
I just didn’t know how to be confident AND feminine, and how to attract a great guy’s attention without feeling desperate or too “out there”
Do you feel the same way? Do you want to be able to meet men in person, but the right ones never pursue you? Or maybe the ones that DO approach you are married or just not your type?
The good news is you don’t have to dress differently or be a super show-off to get attention. Magnetizing men is more about your energy than anything else.
Women I work with tell me all the time that they can’t believe how much more interest they’re sparking…
men flirting with them at the grocery store, noticing them in the airport, asking them out in the coffee shop (one of my clients who is now married met her man while walking into a coffee shop).
So what’s keeping you from attracting the right guy?
Most likely you’ve lost touch with your pleasure.
Pleasure is a KEY ingredient in flirting and magnetizing men. But it’s not about being sexy…it’s about so much more, and feeling good in a way that’s AUTHENTIC to you (otherwise it backfires).
If you want to naturally bring your dream partner to you, and feel empowered about flirting, then check out this interview about pleasure and femininity with Tammera Logan, our heartset and mindset mentor in my program Queens of Pleasure: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EhbwjE6dMxQ&t=20s
In it we discuss the myths and misconceptions about pleasure, and why it’s a KEY ingredient of dating and creating a healthy, passionate partnership.
After you watch it, or maybe even as you’re reading this right now, you might realize that femininity and pleasure are just not something you’re good at, or even know where to start with…
If that’s the case, book a free Strategy Session with us and we’ll help you understand what’s been keeping you from good love and everything you’ve wanted in a man and a relationship.
To your pleasure,
Xoxo, Violet
PS if you want to embody pleasure in a way that’s authentic to you and attract the right men, but you struggle with flirting or being noticed or feeling good about dating, let’s talk. This isn’t something you’re born with, it’s something you learn — but don’t try it at home or with the advice of your girlfriends because your feminine essence is unique to YOU! Set up your free strategy session here now (we only have a few spots a week and these go fast plus it’s summertime which is the time for love!): www.violetlange.com/talk
