by Violet | May 19, 2019 | General
Do you want more attention from the RIGHT men, but not sure how to get it? Do you think you have to be an amazonian woman to find love? That it takes being bold, expressive, and seductive? Think again. This is for my *shy* ladies out there looking...
by Violet | May 16, 2019 | General
Our spiritual lives and our beliefs are the cornerstone of who we are. I believe a good relationship starts with a good relationship with yourself and what you believe in — God, Source, Universe etc. I’ve worked with women of all different religious...
by Violet | May 14, 2019 | General
Hey powerful bossbabes looking for love…are you feeling like a rockstar in the other parts of your life, but you’ve decided to be single because you’re sick of the games? Do you have a pretty easy time getting what you want in life, but struggle in...
by Violet | May 12, 2019 | General
Hey loving ladies…do you ever feel like you’re too broken to date? Or that you’re not lovable? I can relate. I spent years feeling trapped in the cycle of trying to be perfect, and only feeling more and more ashamed of who I was. I even had an...
by Violet | May 9, 2019 | General
One of my clients got married last weekend, and I am SO happy for her! You might be wondering, how do I get that for myself? What did she do differently? Obviously there are many steps to walking down the aisle, which I teach my clients in my signature...
by Violet | May 7, 2019 | General
Do you look at dating as a battle? If someone breaks up with you do you feel like you “lose”? We live in such a competitive society it can feel like finding love is full of winners and losers. But the truth is, the best love happens when everyone wins....
by Violet | May 5, 2019 | General
There’s a sneaky way we keep REAL love from us, ladies… And it’s deeply ingrained in us as a culture. We’re taught from a young age to be nice…and we oftentimes seek to be LIKED. But I see time and again that when a woman is focused on being...
by Violet | May 2, 2019 | General
Okay ladies…today might be kinda painful…like when you had a fun vacation but then you’re like oops, it’s painful to look at my inbox! This sort of pain relates to when we go into “mom” mode in dating and relationships… You know, when you get...
by Violet | Apr 30, 2019 | General
Hey luscious ladies looking for love! Have you been putting in lots of “work” in your love life and getting burnt out and not getting any rewards? Have you been adulting too hard when what you want is a playful, adventurous romance which lasts? ...
by Violet | Apr 28, 2019 | General
Normally I’m a love-and-light sort of girl… But sometimes after a bad break up, or getting ghosted or cheated on, we want to believe that whomever hurt us, will suffer too. Now I’m not saying this is an enlightened opinion! But I celebrate the human part...
by Violet | Apr 25, 2019 | General
Do you ever get told that you’re intimating? Do you feel confident most of the time, but then wonder why no one approaches you? Do you secretly feel annoyed or jealous that women who don’t seem to have what you have — in career, or smarts, or looks...
by Violet | Apr 23, 2019 | General
If only…can be a disease. And keep us from our dreams! If only…the apps were better… If only…men didn’t suck… If only…I lived in a better city… Sound familiar? Maybe you’ve said these things, or heard them...