One of my clients got married last weekend, and I am SO happy for her!
You might be wondering, how do I get that for myself? What did she do differently?
Obviously there are many steps to walking down the aisle, which I teach my clients in my signature program Queens of Pleasure — how to date like a Queen and follow what feels good as a foundation for healthy dating and love.
But there are 3 main things to do to get to “I Do” that I wanted to share with you today.
Because getting stuck in dead-end relationships, or staying unhappily single, for years is a huge problem if what you really want is lasting love.
First, to get to “I Do” you have to say “I Do” to yourself! This means committing to the right ACTIONS to take on your behalf…you know, stopping bad behavior like emasculating men…and starting healthy behavior hiring a love and dating coach.
Second, to get to “I Do” you have to date in a way that’s VALUES-BASED. So many women date by chemistry alone…which means re-enacting old trauma and patterns. When you date in a way that’s values-based, you align with a healthy potential partner.
Third, to get to “I Do” you have to understand how the masculine makes commitments much differently than the feminine. Have you ever had an ex-boyfriend say he didn’t want a relationship, but then go on to get engaged less than a year after you broke up? Men DO commit, they just do it differently and you need to understand how and why.
Imagine what it would be like to have someone supporting you emotionally and maybe even financially? Building a solid foundation for growth and love?
Imagine what it would be like to have someone who understands you and goes out of their way to make you feel loved like the Queen you are?
Imagine what it would be like to date and marry someone who can’t get enough of you, who wants more of you and who encourages you to shine bright and go after your dreams?
If you want to get married and you’re not there yet, what are you waiting for?
PS if you are ready for true love and lasting commitment, set up a free Breakthrough to Love call with my team. These 45 minute calls are high value and provide deep insight into what’s been getting in your way, and what to do to get the love life you deserve. We have dozens of women reach out for these every week and only so many spots so grab your space now: www.violetlange.com/talk