Hey loving ladies…do you ever feel like you’re too broken to date? Or that you’re not lovable?
I can relate. I spent years feeling trapped in the cycle of trying to be perfect, and only feeling more and more ashamed of who I was.
I even had an ex-boyfriend tell me repeatedly “What’s wrong with you?”
To say my “picker” was broken would be an understatement!
You do NOT have to be perfect in order to date and build a great relationship.
In fact, we are all broken. We’ve all had rough experiences. We’ve all struggled to accept ourselves. We’ve all thought we were either not enough, or too much. Men struggle with these things too.
When we allow ourselves to be imperfect, true relationship begins.
I spent years playing the “cool girl” and it never got me the lasting love I wanted.
When I started to be vulnerable, and share my dark secrets, without blaming anyone else, everything shifted.
But here’s the catch…you can use vulnerability to play the victim, or manipulate others, and that is not sexy.
If you want lasting love, learn how to be vulnerable in a way that’s super authentic and super effective in drawing your partner closer…and in drawing yourself closer to your best self too!
Imagine what it would be like to know that even in your toughest moments, your partner has your back?
Imagine what it would be like to be loved and accepted as you are, right now, by someone you deeply respect?
Imagine what it would be like to get compliments and healthy attention consistently, without having to be perfect?
If you’re not getting the love, care, and affection you desire, are you ready to open up for help?
Xoxo, Violet
PS if you want to be loved for who you are, and just haven’t learned the skills and tools for how to date and create a healthy relationship, let’s talk! We help women who are committed to finding love now, to date in a way that’s fulfilling and authentic. But it starts with you. Just set up your free 45 minute Breakthrough to Love session here: www.violetlange.com/talk
