Other than the original offense itself, nothing makes me more upset than when I see a woman give up or give in…
Nothing makes me more upset than when a woman decides she is unworthy of love somehow because of something that was done to her…
Or something that was taken from her.
I am a survivor of sexual abuse.
And I am so inspired every day that it brings me to my knees in gratitude.
I am inspired when I see a woman say ENOUGH!!!
Enough playing small, cowering in fear, and freezing / numbing out.
Enough giving away power to the person who tried to take it.
Enough falling into a pit of despair and not reaching out for love and support.
Whatever happened to you — you are not broken. You are whole, strong, and lovable.
I’ve never met a woman whom I didn’t admire in some way, and love in some way, as a reflection of the Divine Feminine and an example and teacher for me.
But I can’t help you if you want to be a victim…if you want to stay stuck…if you want to keep giving away your power.
Most of us are terrified of our power.
We reclaim some but then give it away, never risking to take a big leap and commit in a big way to ourselves.
We never “go big or go home” (one of the mantras of one of my newest clients)
We may wonder…
Who will I be when I say ENOUGH?
And, will I be loved?
Let me tell you, this is a risk worth taking.
Because I know what it’s like on the other side…
I settled in too many relationships, and when I finally changed that pattern, finally OWNED my power with a partner (instead of hiding my light),
My love life. My friendships. My spirituality. My sensuality. My career — all of it.
I’m not saying my life is perfect, but it’s pretty damn amazing.
So I want you to know, you CAN survive, and more importantly, THRIVE.
It wasn’t easy. And it wasn’t always fun, to keep showing up for myself and fight my inner demons.
But is worth every freaking moment.
And so say my clients as well.
“It was worth every moment to get unstuck and finally feel excited about dating and optimistic about love,” she said.
“It was worth it to no longer settle and to instead say no and make space for the right guy,” she said.
“It was worth it to follow my heart and value myself versus dating anyone who comes along,” she said.
“I WILL NEVER GIVE UP,” she said.
I am so inspired by these women.
And I too will never give up on myself.
I too will never give up on the women I work with, no matter how painful their past.
I too will never give up on the Divine Feminine and how she masterfully is rising again on this planet to wake all of us up.
Are you willing to stand up for yourself?
Are you willing to take back your power in the name of love?
Are you willing to be an example for your girlfriends and other survivors? To show them love is possible and healing is your birthright?
If so, say Heck Yeah. A-men. Yes, I’m In.
Celebrating your courage.
P.S. I’d love to hear your story of triumph over your past — let me know if you’re a survivor, and how you’ve healed and what you’re wanting out of life and love. Reply to this message or comment in our private group on Facebook.
P.P.S. And if you still haven’t set up time with our team to get customized attention on how to breakthrough your old pattern and fully claim your power to be loved, just check this link for a spot: www.violetlange.com/apply If nothing works for you, contact [email protected]y and she’ll try to find time for you on our calendar for your free Breakthrough Session <3 <3 <3