Have you ever felt the energy in a new relationship just totally drop?
Or maybe someone you met online was messaging you daily, but then stopped?
It’s one thing to attract a guy, but it’s another thing to keep the interest level high, for both of you.
One of the biggest mistakes I see women make in the early stages of dating is being too agreeable. Waiting (and waiting) for him to set the tone, and not sharing their own energy, ideas, activites, and dreams.
If he says “how’s your day?” and you say “good! How about you?” there’s really nowhere to go with that…so he doesn’t reply, and then you’re left asking him another question, and another question, and his responses get shorter and shorter.
Feel familiar?
Men don’t fall in love with someone who is “nice”…and even if you are “nice,” that’s probably not what captures his heart.
So take a risk to share more — more of who you are and what lights you up.
We all want to give and receive energy when we communicate, not just exchange the standard pleasantries. Sounds basic, but most women aren’t skilled in this, so they wonder why things never really take off in their love life.
The women I work with learn how to express themselves online and in person in a way that’s magnetic to the masculine.
If you’d like to learn this too, just reach out and set up a free Love Strategy Session at www.violetlange.com/talk.
We’ll see what’s been going on in your love life, what you really want, and what steps you should take next. If it feels like a good fit for both of us, I may tell you about my program, or a I may not if it’s already full — but either way you’ll discover more about your communication and energetic patterns.
Don’t settle for “nice” communication — he won’t. Draw him closer instead.
Xoxo,
Violet
