{"id":503926,"date":"2019-08-06T12:16:24","date_gmt":"2019-08-06T19:16:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/violetlange.com\/?p=503926"},"modified":"2019-07-26T12:19:11","modified_gmt":"2019-07-26T19:19:11","slug":"be-seen-queen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/violetlange.com\/blog\/be-seen-queen\/","title":{"rendered":"Be Seen, Queen!!!"},"content":{"rendered":"

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I\u2019m just curious…on a scale of 1 to 10, how fully are you allowing yourself to be seen by the world? (with 1 being a hermit and 10 being absolutely radiant and expressed)<\/span><\/p>\n

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Ok now I\u2019m also just curious, on a scale of 1 to 10, how boldly are you sharing your gifts with the world? (with 1 being \u201cI didn\u2019t know I had gifts\u201d and 10 being \u201cI offer my best self every day with joy\u201d)<\/span><\/p>\n

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Both of these questions — allowing yourself to be seen, and sharing your gifts with the world — are absolutely related to living in your feminine energy.<\/span><\/p>\n

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See the mistake most women make is in thinking that femininity means being small, meek, and passive. Nothing could be further from the truth! That\u2019s just the type of femininity that the patriarchy has told us is feminine because it\u2019s easier to control.<\/span><\/p>\n

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True feminine energy is vibrant, alive, sassy, radiant, passionate, and bold. It may boldly internal or cool at times (think Ice Queen energy)…but it\u2019s still very intentional in its expression.<\/span><\/p>\n

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One of my favorite things about helping women is seeing them blossom into their full divine feminine power…this ALWAYS makes them more money and attracts higher quality men to them.<\/span><\/p>\n

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But this looks different for every woman, because every woman has a unique feminine essence.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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The common factor is that when a woman is fully expressed in her femininity, she is seen. The world takes notice. And she has the healthy boundaries to shut down any unwanted attention without guilt or shame. Nothing, and no one, will dim her light.<\/span><\/p>\n

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If you\u2019re hiding your light out of fear, or hiding your gifts out of misplaced feelings of unworthiness, the world is suffering.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Each time you allow yourself to be seen, and allow yourself to give and receive fully, it inspires another woman to do the same…and this is what will change the world — women helping women.<\/span><\/p>\n

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It\u2019s Your Time! Be Seen, Queen!<\/span><\/p>\n

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But, don\u2019t do this alone. It can feel scary (aka vulnerability hangover) to be seen, and we need to have the right energetic boundaries in place to blossom sustainably and safely. If you struggle with being seen, reach out for help here: <\/span>www.violetlange.com\/talk<\/span><\/a>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Xoxo, Violet<\/span><\/p>\n

P.S. If you are ready to be seen…and if you are ready to date like a Queen and attract your King, while feeling fabulously feminine along the way, let\u2019s talk. Go to <\/span>www.violetlange.com\/talk<\/span><\/a> to set up your free 20 minute Discovery Call. We\u2019ll ask you some simple questions to see if we can help you, and if so, we\u2019ll invite you to a free strategy session where we\u2019ll create a roadmap together for your love life. Just book your time here now: <\/span>www.violetlange.com\/talk<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<\/span>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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