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Okay ladies…today might be kinda painful…like when you had a fun vacation but then you\u2019re like oops, it\u2019s painful to look at my inbox!<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n This sort of pain relates to when we go into \u201cmom\u201d mode in dating and relationships\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n You know, when you get bent out of shape about the logistics of a date, or a trip, or what your partner is doing\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n I have to tell you, I fall into this same trap myself.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Instead of keeping the passion and love alive, sometimes I make all my conversations with my husband about the logistics\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n about his day and his schedule, or about my day and my schedule, or about the things we need to plan or the things to get done around the house, or what we need from the grocery store.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Now of course we need to talk about those things in a relationship, but to a WAY lesser extent while dating\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n And even in a relationship, if we focus just on the logistics, we may lose the LOVE!!!<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n This is a big problem because most people don\u2019t want a caretaker, they want a true partner. Someone who inspires them, helps them think differently, connects them to their heart, and makes them feel like the hero they are\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n But when we focus on logistics we can get into \u201cmother hen\u201d or organizing mode…stuck in our head and disconnected from our heart. Yikes!<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n