{"id":503436,"date":"2019-02-26T09:12:57","date_gmt":"2019-02-26T17:12:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/violetlange.com\/?p=503436"},"modified":"2019-02-05T09:14:53","modified_gmt":"2019-02-05T17:14:53","slug":"what-message-are-you-sending-the-universe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/violetlange.com\/blog\/what-message-are-you-sending-the-universe\/","title":{"rendered":"What Message Are You Sending the Universe?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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I could have stayed suffocated for my whole life.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n But I healed, and continue to heal,<\/span> those imprints on my nervous system, so that another woman does not have to go through this ever again. I spent 6+ years in therapy, hired coaches, saw healers, did retreats, and spent over $50,000. <\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n It has been the best investment I have ever made because it brought me back to myself, my power, and my ability to give and receive healthy love. I would spend 10x that again, in a heartbeat — even if I had to work my whole life to pay that debt. <\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Because the debt of <\/span>staying stuck in your trauma is what breaks the spirit and THAT is far too big a price to pay.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n I don\u2019t share this for your sympathy. I share it because I need you to know WHY I do what I do and the level of commitment I expect of myself, my team, and my clients.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n There\u2019s no way I crawled out of that hell hole to pretend that life, and love, is a cake walk. <\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n There\u2019s no way I survived and THRIVED from the crap I went through, just to give up all my power to a shady guy, or a woman who trolls my Facebook posts, or potential client who waffles on her committment. <\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n There\u2019s no way I endured miscarriage, divorce, being cheated on, dating narcissists and on and on, just to give up. <\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Not now, and not ever.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n If you\u2019re not that serious about love, you do you boo. I am not here to convince you or anyone about love. <\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n If you don\u2019t realize by now that <\/span>love is the greatest force on the planet and the biggest multiplier to get you everything you want in life (power, success, money, passion, health, peace, freedom), <\/span>you need more than a free coaching call or blog post or video to wake up.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n I ask a lot of myself. I ask a lot of my clients. And I ask a lot of my team. Not to mention of my husband \ud83d\ude09<\/span> Don\u2019t worry though, I more than make up for it and we have more love now in our relationship than I\u2019ve ever experienced in my life.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n My point is, stop complaining about love. Stop overanalyzing his texts. Stop being the damsel in distress. Stop saying you want a partner but then waffling any time you have to actually make a decision to choose love right now. Stop sending mixed messages to the universe.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Heal your own life by getting support and guidance from an expert. Be committed to what you want. I can help you heal and turn your whole love life around in weeks so it doesn\u2019t have to take you two decades like it did for me. But<\/span> I can\u2019t want love for you more than you do — if I did, it would just be codependency.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n The only love that survives is love which is as authentic and fierce as it is romantic and tender. <\/span>That\u2019s the love I\u2019m interested in for me and my clients.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n