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How do you want your friends to respond when they meet your new man?<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Excited? Grateful you finally found someone? Secretly jealous because he\u2019s so hot? Hahaha \ud83d\ude42<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n One of the biggest mistakes women make in love is setting a vision in isolation.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n They think about their partner like it\u2019s a two-person world. And they forget that relationship is only one part of their eco-system of support.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n An important part of my process for transforming women from single and lonely to deliciously in love and claimed, is vetting. <\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Vetting out potential partners with me — yes, I will help you see the red flags and sort through online dating, so you don\u2019t get stuck with the wrong guy.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Look, if your partner makes the rest of your life, and friends, go away or get worse, he\u2019s co-dependent and controlling.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n How do you want your partner to fit into your friendships and family and work life?<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Do you want him to be extroverted and the life of the party, making everyone laugh?<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Do you want him to catch your eye and make you feel his desire for you?<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Do you want him to be supportive, the guy who cheers you on and praises you, making you feel like a million bucks?<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n How do YOU want to feel in social situations with him? Safe? Supported? Happy? Secure?<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Don\u2019t dream up your guy as \u201cjust the two of us\u201d. You may be each other\u2019s rock, but you live in a world with other relationships and people. <\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n If you don\u2019t remember that, you\u2019ll miss out on opportunities to serve and uplift your community…and you\u2019ll isolate yourself as a couple until it combusts. <\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n