{"id":503260,"date":"2018-12-29T15:32:20","date_gmt":"2018-12-29T23:32:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/violetlange.com\/?p=503260"},"modified":"2020-02-24T08:40:21","modified_gmt":"2020-02-24T16:40:21","slug":"the-world-is-full-of-lonely-people-afraid-to-make-the-first-move-the-green-book","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/violetlange.com\/blog\/the-world-is-full-of-lonely-people-afraid-to-make-the-first-move-the-green-book\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201cThe world is full of lonely people afraid to make the first move\u201d — The Green Book"},"content":{"rendered":"
Where are you holding back when it comes to love?<\/p>\n
Are you turning away from someone\u2019s gaze? Or looking down?<\/p>\n
Are you putting off going on meetup or getting out and about where you could meet someone with similar interests?<\/p>\n
Are you creating drama in your relationship, pushing away his love?<\/p>\n
Most women don\u2019t even realize they\u2019re self-sabotaging the right love for them\u2026<\/p>\n
Which can lead to analysis paralysis, always analyzing your behavior but never seeing the blind spots.<\/p>\n
My client Carrie didn\u2019t realize she had a challenge with intimacy…until we started working together and she discovered she led with sex, but never opened her heart.<\/p>\n
And all the guys she liked freaked her out — it was too close for comfort, so she pushed them away.<\/p>\n
Which left her with non-committal, avoidant guys and kept her heart closed off.<\/p>\n
Through my program, she got the tools, support, and guidance to integrate her head, heart, and body. To expand and let go of trauma. To attract a successful man and develop closeness without losing herself.<\/p>\n
Carrie made the first move. She reached out for help.<\/p>\n
After working with therapists and other coaches who couldn\u2019t get her love (only outdated dating tactics), she found me. I often work with women who\u2019ve tried everything else and come to the best because I do it all, fast.<\/p>\n
If you want love, you absolutely have to make the first move.<\/p>\n
This doesn\u2019t mean asking a guy out.<\/p>\n
It means flirting in an empowered, confident, sexy way.<\/p>\n
It means being vulnerable and sharing your feelings and desires, including your anger.<\/p>\n
It means putting YOU first and investing in your love life.<\/p>\n
Are you getting the romance, passion, and commitment that you crave?<\/p>\n
If not, it\u2019s time to make the first move.<\/p>\n
Set up time to talk with us before this year is over!<\/p>\n
Xoxo Violet<\/p>\n
PS there are a limited number of successful, handsome, emotionally available men. If you want to be in a great relationship, you have to do things differently — what got you here won\u2019t get you down the aisle. Make the first move by getting support so you can attract and keep a great guy and let go of being lonely. We have a few times open still in 2018 if you book your free call now:<\/p>\n