{"id":503223,"date":"2018-12-13T13:27:42","date_gmt":"2018-12-13T21:27:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/violetlange.com\/?p=503223"},"modified":"2018-12-13T13:27:42","modified_gmt":"2018-12-13T21:27:42","slug":"are-there-rules-anymore-in-dating","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/violetlange.com\/blog\/are-there-rules-anymore-in-dating\/","title":{"rendered":"Are There Rules Anymore in Dating?"},"content":{"rendered":"

The myth is that you should just follow your heart.<\/span><\/p>\n

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The truth is you should NOT just follow your heart.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Dating can be dangerous — what if you end up with the wrong guy? What if you miss out on the right guy? What if you accidentally ruin a relationship that had huge potential?<\/span><\/p>\n

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I know, because I\u2019ve been there. I\u2019ve sabotaged so many great relationships I can\u2019t even count them on one hand. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Thank God I learned what I needed to know (and what I now teach my clients), and landed an amazing guy (my husband Jason).<\/span><\/p>\n

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Look, divorce costs anywhere from $20k to $70k, not to mention future costs like behavior problems for kids and lack of combined income to help pay for college.<\/span><\/p>\n

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It\u2019s a huge problem to not know the right way to date.<\/span><\/p>\n

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But guess what? <\/span><\/p>\n

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I know that you CAN do this! <\/span><\/p>\n

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Dating can be simple, fun, and easy. I witness women do it all the time. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Light bulbs go off in their head. The pieces of the puzzle come together. They get the \u201cdecoder ring\u201d for modern romance. <\/span><\/p>\n

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I have a <\/span>Dating Guidemap and Dating Rules of the Road<\/b> that everyone I work with gets. It\u2019s like having the keys to the Queendom! And it\u2019s just one tiny part of what I offer my clients.<\/span><\/p>\n

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With this <\/span>Dating Guidemap and Dating Rules of the Road<\/b>, my clients<\/span><\/p>\n

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get a boyfriend for the first time in years.<\/span><\/p>\n

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find a high quality match instead of settling.<\/span><\/p>\n

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and get engaged in a matter of months instead of worrying they\u2019ll never meet their guy.<\/span><\/p>\n

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My client Maria texted me just a few days ago:<\/span><\/p>\n

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\u201cViolet! This was the very first date I\u2019ve been on in over 18 months and it was incredible. I can\u2019t believe the way that the desires and longings I identified (in the program) showed up in very real ways. The stuff you are teaching is so powerful and I can\u2019t wait to see what is possible as I continue to do this work and embrace the life of a queen of pleasure and love. Thank you!!!\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

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Want to learn the right way to date? What to have the SKILLS you need to date effectively and attract the best and weed out the rest?<\/span><\/p>\n

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Sign up for a free call with our team <\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Xoxo, Violet<\/span><\/p>\n

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PS if you\u2019re thinking well, I\u2019ll just wait til later, it\u2019s almost the holidays, I want to tell you — KEEP MOMENTUM GOING. If you\u2019re reading this message you\u2019re one step closer to love. Don\u2019t go backwards. It is way harder to get back on the horse if you keep delaying taking action. How do you know when your soulmate is going to walk by and you might not notice or have the skills to make a great relationship? He might be at New Years Eve and you\u2019ll be glad you got support when you did, so your 2019 is romantic and magical. Grab your spot for your free call now: <\/span>www.violetlange.com\/talk<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<\/span>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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