{"id":502796,"date":"2018-09-25T09:54:55","date_gmt":"2018-09-25T16:54:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/violetlange.com\/?p=502796"},"modified":"2018-09-30T20:24:54","modified_gmt":"2018-10-01T03:24:54","slug":"what-does-the-healthy-masculine-want-free-five-part-series-day-one","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/violetlange.com\/blog\/what-does-the-healthy-masculine-want-free-five-part-series-day-one\/","title":{"rendered":"What Does the (Healthy) Masculine Want? Free Five-Part Series — Day One"},"content":{"rendered":"

Not getting enough dates? Not converting those dates into a fulfilling relationship?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a big problem that most women don\u2019t understand what men want…or they mistakenly assume men only want one thing.<\/p>\n

Figuring out what men want is hard, isn\u2019t it? It seems like it gets harder every day with all the apps and profiles and drama.<\/p>\n

Which is a shame, really, because understanding your date, and future partner, is a big part of getting into a great relationship.<\/p>\n

What DO men want?<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t have to guess at what men want…I know what they want, because men speak to the women in my program regularly.<\/p>\n

I bring successful, kind, and authentic men in to connect with my clients\u2026so they get to understand the masculine from a variety of men and date more effectively with that knowledge.<\/p>\n

Consistently — regardless of age, ethnicity, or career — men want the same things.<\/p>\n

So I\u2019m not going to hold it back from you ladies! Listen up \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n

This is the first in a five part series on what men want,<\/p>\n

AND,<\/p>\n

on the fears which may be keeping you from offering those things to men and getting the love you desire.<\/p>\n

The number one thing a man wants is a woman who is:<\/p>\n

#1 Embodied<\/strong><\/h1>\n

The unhealthy masculine wants the opposite of an embodied woman\u2026<\/p>\n

they want women to be disassociated, drunk, and unaware, so they can take advantage of women.<\/p>\n

The HEALTHY masculine wants a woman who is connected to her body, confident in her body, and enjoying her body. He wants her to be aware and attuned.<\/p>\n

The healthy masculine finds an embodied woman to be magnetic, and deeply sexy.<\/p>\n

Not a single man I talked to said he looks for a specific appearance from a woman…it\u2019s not about her shape or size or color of lipstick.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s about how she moves, how she carries herself, and how she communicates through her expressions.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a felt-sense or inner-knowing that a man can tell about a woman instantly.<\/p>\n

So what gets in the way of women being embodied?<\/p>\n

The fear of our shadow.<\/p>\n

The fear of actually finding out what our body has to say, what she wants, and what she won\u2019t tolerate.<\/p>\n

The fear of having to deal with and process our feelings and our past experiences.<\/p>\n

This fear keeps many women stuck in their heads: over-analyzing, worrying, or staying unintegrated body, mind, and heart.<\/p>\n

This fear also looks like fear of our own sexuality.<\/p>\n

With all that fear, something powerful must be there to break through it. And there is.<\/p>\n

There are three key benefits of being embodied:<\/strong><\/p>\n

1–<\/strong>Men notice you and ask you out. My clients get asked out in the park, on the subway, and at events.<\/p>\n

2–<\/strong>You feel safer because you\u2019re more aware of how you feel and what your body needs.<\/p>\n

3–<\/strong>You feel sexier because you\u2019re celebrating your body instead of punishing her.<\/p>\n

Wins all around \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n

Tomorrow I\u2019ll be sharing the second quality the healthy masculine looks for in a woman…and the fear which may be keeping you from getting second or third dates with great men. Stay tuned \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n

Xoxo, Violet<\/p>\n

PS If you want to know HOW to become more embodied so you can attract a healthy man and create an awesome relationship, schedule a free Breakthrough to Love session now\u00a0www.violetlange.com\/talk\u00a0<\/a><\/p>\n<\/span>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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