{"id":502744,"date":"2018-09-09T05:35:04","date_gmt":"2018-09-09T12:35:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/violetlange.com\/?p=502744"},"modified":"2018-09-30T20:25:33","modified_gmt":"2018-10-01T03:25:33","slug":"there-are-only-16-weeks-left-in-2018-sixteen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/violetlange.com\/blog\/there-are-only-16-weeks-left-in-2018-sixteen\/","title":{"rendered":"There are only 16 weeks left in 2018. SIXTEEN!"},"content":{"rendered":"

One of the biggest problems I encounter in women who are single is that they think they have plenty of time.<\/span><\/p>\n

They\u2019ve been putting off dating, <\/span><\/p>\n

Or they\u2019ve been dating with a closed heart, and finding all the reasons NOT to like someone.<\/span><\/p>\n

Or they\u2019ve been attracting the same sort of guys.<\/span><\/p>\n

All three of these things are wasting your precious time, and keeping you single instead of being in a supportive, loving, passionate relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

Maybe these women are afraid of the unknown\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

Maybe they\u2019re afraid of rejection\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

Maybe they\u2019re afraid of finding out how hard dating and commitment actually are.<\/span><\/p>\n

But I\u2019ll tell you what:<\/span><\/p>\n

I have heard the CRAZIEST fears! I talk to women every day and I have heard it all.<\/span><\/p>\n

And talking to over 1,000 women I have discovered that NONE of those fears actually matter. <\/span><\/p>\n

One of my most terrified clients had the most amazing transformation. <\/span><\/p>\n

She went from near panic-mode when she first talked to me, to being in a fantastic relationship with a man who takes her on trips to Mexico, picks her up every time for their dates, and compliments her every day. <\/span><\/p>\n

And their passion is electric! She tells me \u201coh my God Violet! I can\u2019t believe he\u2019s so hot!\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

She said she couldn\u2019t even imagine a love like this was possible three months ago.<\/span><\/p>\n

Her fears could have kept wrecking her love love. <\/span><\/p>\n

But at the end of the day (and the end of her being single), her fear didn\u2019t actually matter. It did not keep her from love. <\/span><\/p>\n

Why?<\/span><\/p>\n

Because she CHOSE to take action anyway and not let the fear win.<\/span><\/p>\n

She moved forward and got my help in spite of her fear.<\/span><\/p>\n

Fear is in the mind. Danger might be in the body if you really are in a harmful situation. But fear is just a product of our thoughts.<\/span><\/p>\n

And our thoughts can be changed, quickly.<\/span><\/p>\n

Our brain is our most powerful tool, when used effectively.<\/span><\/p>\n

Is your mindset about love on autopilot? Are you letting the fear win? <\/span><\/p>\n

Is that really how you want to live your life? Watching opportunities for love slip away to other women? <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s Fall. There are only 16 weeks left in 2018. SIXTEEN!<\/span><\/p>\n

This is the time of year to make changes, to get a fresh start, and to get into a great place <\/span>before<\/span><\/i> the holidays.<\/span><\/p>\n

We just went through some massive energy shifts and things are opening up for you to have exactly what you want.<\/span><\/p>\n

But you have to step through the doorway.<\/span><\/p>\n

Look, the clients who have the biggest wins in love are often the ones who come to me the most scared. <\/span><\/p>\n

All that fear energy gets changed into positive energy, into self-belief, and into effective action.<\/span><\/p>\n

And the results are remarkable.<\/span><\/p>\n

Having fear is not a problem. Letting it drive your love life is.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let fear hold you back. You deserve a life of love, someone to cuddle with you by the fire with some eggnog, someone to rub your back after Thanksgiving dinner.<\/span><\/p>\n

You deserve to move out of fear and into possibility. Into the magic of incredible love and past the loneliness.<\/span><\/p>\n

Xoxo, Violet<\/span><\/p>\n

PS if you\u2019re ready to make the last 16 weeks of the year the most loving, powerful moments of 2018…if you\u2019re ready to attract an awesome partner to start the New Year with…and if you\u2019re ready to stop the loneliness, suffering, and heartache…now is the time. I help women go from single to smitten and committed in as little as 6 weeks. If you\u2019re ready to win in love, set up your free Breakthrough to Love session here: <\/span>www.violetlange.com\/talk<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

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