{"id":2326,"date":"2018-05-26T05:34:49","date_gmt":"2018-05-26T12:34:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/violetlange.com\/?p=2326"},"modified":"2018-05-26T05:34:49","modified_gmt":"2018-05-26T12:34:49","slug":"are-you-actually-ready-for-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/violetlange.com\/blog\/are-you-actually-ready-for-love\/","title":{"rendered":"Are You Actually Ready for Love?"},"content":{"rendered":"

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This is the hottest time of year for love and romance…<\/strong><\/p>\n

Memorial Day barbecues kick-off summer parties and summer dating \u2014 when more and more people are out and about.<\/p>\n

But there\u2019s a big problem:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

While many women SAY <\/strong>they\u2019re ready for love this summer…<\/p>\n

Not all women are WILLING<\/strong> to make changes to actually be ready for, and in, a healthy, lasting relationship.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not your fault if you\u2019ve put off this part of your life or are recovering from heartache…<\/p>\n

Because chances are good no one ever taught you the skills and approach and self-confidence you need to win in love.<\/p>\n

This is an issue because I don\u2019t want you to waste your time this summer \u201cgetting ready to get ready\u201d, and then wake up at Thanksgiving with no good men and all turkeys ?<\/p>\n

So here\u2019s what doesn\u2019t work:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

*getting advice from your single girlfriends, or from married friends who have amnesia about dating<\/p>\n

*getting stuck online without a strategy or guidance to help bring you the right men<\/p>\n

*getting into meditation, reading books, talk-therapy or other intellect-only methods which don\u2019t bring you into your body and heart<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s what does work:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

*showing up hungry to do the inner work for lasting love through practices which connect your mind, heart, and body<\/p>\n

*reaching out to a tribe and mentor who have been where you are and know how to get unstuck and build a relationship<\/p>\n

*making a bold decision to find love this summer<\/p>\n

One of my clients Debbie had spent years wanting a different love life…<\/p>\n

But she wasn\u2019t sure what to do.<\/p>\n

When she talked to me she was shocked that she could go from feeling run-down and helpless in dating,<\/p>\n

to\u00a0be in an incredible relationship within weeks.<\/p>\n

Despite her cautious nature, Debbie said yes to love \u2014 to\u00a0get the support and tools she needed to make this part of her life work.<\/p>\n

She knew nothing would change unless she changed, and she knew she wouldn\u2019t change unless she worked with someone specifically on love.<\/p>\n

14 weeks<\/strong> after starting to work with me, Debbie has a great boyfriend who texts her daily, sees her multiple times a week, and really listens to her and cherishes her…<\/p>\n

She has new clients and new opportunities as a result of her greater confidence and power…<\/p>\n

And she feels better about love than ever before \u2014 like a weight has been lifted.<\/p>\n

I see so many women get in a rut in their dating\u00a0life or get focused on the wrong things.<\/p>\n

Which is crazy when there\u2019s a much easier way.<\/p>\n

If you want to go from single to summer love, then don\u2019t make those mistakes above.<\/p>\n

Do what Debbie did \u2014 shake things up and get the support you need.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let summer pass by without some sizzle \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n

Xoxo Violet<\/p>\n

PS if you\u2019ve decided you want love, are hungry for the inner work to be your best self, and want a tribe to encourage you versus trying to figure it out alone, let\u2019s talk! I\u2019m getting back from Paris in a few days and have some spots on my calendar for a few women to have complimentary Breakthrough to Love sessions. In this 45 minute\u00a0<\/a>call, you\u2019ll get clarity on what\u2019s stopping you from having an awesome relationship, and get support <\/a><\/strong>on<\/a><\/strong> your vision of ideal love. Sign up now for your free spot: www.violetlange.com\/apply
\n<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Devoted to Love,<\/p>\n

Xoxo,<\/p>\n

Violet<\/p>\n<\/span>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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