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I have a big problem to talk to you about today\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n And that\u2019s the issue of not trusting…YOURSELF.<\/span><\/p>\n Sometimes I talk to women who are so hungry to change their love life<\/span><\/p>\n they are decisive and committed to making this part of their life freaking awesome<\/span><\/p>\n and willing to do what it takes to get great at love and attracting high quality men.<\/span><\/p>\n And sometimes I talk to women and it\u2019s like something just isn\u2019t clicking\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n They know they can\u2019t continue to feel:<\/span><\/p>\n *Used and abandoned and ghosted from all these 1 or 2 month \u201crelationships\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n *Pain and dissociation during sex<\/span><\/p>\n *Jealous of all the people getting married and having kids when they know they\u2019re a great catch<\/span><\/p>\n But you know what happens?<\/span><\/p>\n Despite them KNOWING they need to change, they start listening to something very dangerous.<\/span><\/p>\n They start listening to their fear.<\/span><\/p>\n I get it — we all have the little voice that challenges us, that steals our dreams, that tells us we can\u2019t change.<\/span><\/p>\n But if we listen to that voice and worse, don\u2019t take action because of that voice, we are dooming ourselves to a life of being a victim.<\/span><\/p>\n I spent a few years being a victim…saying how hard it was to change, complaining to all my girlfriends how much men sucked, and crying all the time not to mention drinking a little too much.<\/span><\/p>\n And I gotta tell you those were the toughest years of my life.<\/span><\/p>\n I am a SURVIVOR of sexual abuse, cheating, divorce, miscarriage, and all that stuff.<\/span><\/p>\n And I don\u2019t really care.<\/span><\/p>\n Because the most important thing was not the hell-hole I was living in, it was that I made a powerful choice to GET OUT.<\/span><\/p>\n I now am married to the man of my dreams, living in the best city in the world, traveling whenever we want, and making a massive impact helping women find the love of their life (80% of the women I work with are in an incredible relationship in 6 months).<\/span><\/p>\n So having gone through that transformation and helped over 100 women do the same, I\u2019m curious…<\/span><\/p>\n Who is telling you that the great guys are gone?<\/span><\/p>\n Who is telling you that you can\u2019t have everything you want and then some?<\/span><\/p>\n Who is telling you that this is \u201cjust how it is\u201d or \u201clet\u2019s just stay single\u201d?<\/span><\/p>\n If that\u2019s a friend or family member, you better back away slowly and start spending less time with them\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n you need a group of people who totally uplift you and inspire you with their commitment to love on their terms<\/span><\/p>\n And if that voice telling you all those things is YOU\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n Then we need to talk. <\/span><\/p>\n Because I have never met a human being who didn\u2019t feel fear.<\/span><\/p>\n That\u2019s normal, and not that exciting to me.<\/span><\/p>\n The people I\u2019m so jazzed about — the people who make my day and my life (other than my husband of course :)), are the people who say \u201cF it\u201d to Fear\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n People who know the voices in their head aren\u2019t real, <\/span><\/p>\n who know that while the opportunity to find love IS real, it doesn\u2019t happen forever <\/span><\/p>\n (let me tell you it is WAY harder to date in your 50s than your 30s and 40s)… <\/span><\/p>\n I can help you claim your inner survivor and heal — attracting love in as little as 4 weeks. <\/span><\/p>\n But I can\u2019t want it more than you do.<\/span><\/p>\n I LOVE people who are ready to be a VICTOR and not a victim. <\/span><\/p>\n Men do too. From this place ANYTHING is possible!<\/span><\/p>\n Are you ready to trust yourself and trust your YES and stop listening to your fear?<\/span><\/p>\n Xoxo, Violet<\/span><\/p>\n<\/span>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" I have a big problem to talk to you about today\u2026 And that\u2019s the issue of not trusting…YOURSELF. Sometimes I talk to women who are so hungry to change their love life they are decisive and committed to making this part of their life freaking awesome and willing to do what it takes to get […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1983,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","inline_featured_image":false,"episode_type":"","audio_file":"","cover_image":"","cover_image_id":"","duration":"","filesize":"","date_recorded":"","explicit":"","block":"","filesize_raw":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\n