{"id":1958,"date":"2018-02-14T07:57:17","date_gmt":"2018-02-14T15:57:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/violetlange.com\/?p=1958"},"modified":"2018-02-14T07:57:17","modified_gmt":"2018-02-14T15:57:17","slug":"the-best-day-for-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/violetlange.com\/blog\/the-best-day-for-love\/","title":{"rendered":"The Best Day for Love"},"content":{"rendered":"

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I want to bust two myths today that always come up this time of year!<\/span><\/p>\n

First, you might think that Valentine\u2019s Day is the best day for love\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

And, second, you might think that Valentine\u2019s Day is all about the man sweeping the woman off her feet…<\/span><\/p>\n

But these aren\u2019t actually true!<\/span><\/p>\n

What is the best day for love?<\/span><\/p>\n

The best day for love is the day you CHOOSE to make love your number one priority. The best day for love is TODAY.<\/span><\/p>\n

This means letting down your walls, breaking through your fear of commitment, and recognizing that love doesn\u2019t just \u201chappen\u201d…<\/span><\/p>\n

Like everything in life, love comes to those who do the work for it.<\/span><\/p>\n

I wish it were different, but I can\u2019t tell you how many women I talk to in their 40s who thought love would just show up, but haven\u2019t had a successful relationship in a decade\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

So many women who \u201chope\u201d that this time it\u2019ll be different but keep attracting the same non-commital men.<\/span><\/p>\n

Valentine\u2019s Day is a beautiful day for love…if you take the time today to really say YES to love in a meaningful way\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

(which can start with <\/span>booking a call with us<\/span><\/a> to get the insight and help you need for love to work for you now).<\/span><\/p>\n

The second myth I want to bust is that Valentine\u2019s Day is all about the man making grand gestures for the woman…chocolates, roses, champagne, jewelry\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

These are nice outer representations of love, and I myself ADORE roses and chocolate and all the things!<\/span><\/p>\n

But the deepest meaning of Valentine\u2019s Day might surprise you\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

The deepest meaning of Valentine\u2019s Day is remembering that this level of love is available for you when you connect to yourself first.<\/span><\/p>\n

The biggest problem with most dating advice is that it\u2019s all about the man\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

Did you know the truth of it is about connecting to yourself?<\/span><\/p>\n

Whenever women make it about the man, they suffer.<\/span><\/p>\n

Why?<\/span><\/p>\n

Because it was never about the man and him giving you happiness.<\/span><\/p>\n

It is not your job to fix him, or convince him to chase you\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s your job to love yourself so deeply, express your truth, value yourself, and rise into your embodiment of a QUEEN\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

In that state of self-love and ecstasy and acceptance, all love flows to you.<\/span><\/p>\n

And in that state, not only do you receive love (and chocolate and all the things)…you ARE love.<\/span><\/p>\n

Life is a flow of love, and it starts with you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Xoxo, Violet<\/span><\/p>\n

PS if you\u2019d like to become a Queen of Love, and attract a man devoted to you, adoring you next Valentine\u2019s Day like the goddess you are, let\u2019s talk. Today can be the day you change the trajectory of your love life forever! Find a time here at <\/span>www.violetlange.com\/apply<\/span><\/a> for your free Breakthrough to Love Call <3 <3 <3<\/span><\/p>\n<\/span>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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