{"id":1479,"date":"2017-08-27T11:12:09","date_gmt":"2017-08-27T18:12:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/violetlange.com\/?p=1479"},"modified":"2017-08-27T11:12:09","modified_gmt":"2017-08-27T18:12:09","slug":"walking-on-eggshells-or-staying-guarded-only-delays-the-inevitable-stan-tatkin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/violetlange.com\/blog\/walking-on-eggshells-or-staying-guarded-only-delays-the-inevitable-stan-tatkin\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201cWalking on eggshells or staying guarded only delays the inevitable.\u201d — Stan Tatkin"},"content":{"rendered":"

Where are you holding back? Treading lightly? Withholding your emotions or your truth? I LOVE this quote because it reminds us to PLAY FULL OUT.<\/span><\/p>\n

To be who you are, without apology or delay.<\/span><\/p>\n

When you don\u2019t do this — when you hide — relationships crumble. Dust. Finito. The shell breaks and there\u2019s nothing inside.<\/span><\/p>\n

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This week I asked the women in my course where they were still hiding, and how they wanted to shine\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

They are having massive breakthroughs:<\/span><\/p>\n

getting asked for their number, asked to dance, asked to be exclusive\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

saying no to dates they don\u2019t want to go on, saying no to situations that feel icky, saying no to the fears in their head\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

trusting themselves and speaking without hesitation and without holding back<\/span><\/p>\n

expressing their desires without justifying or demanding, and watching their love interest meet them, match them, step by step<\/span><\/p>\n

And they want to shine even brighter. It is like watching the stars appear in the night sky, they are brilliant!<\/span><\/p>\n

NONE of these life-changing shifts would be possible if they were walking on eggshells or afraid to break some eggs. <\/span><\/p>\n

They are getting the love they want, yes, but they are also getting back their POWER. <\/span><\/p>\n

Love IS power. It\u2019s no longer either \/ or…power without love is ruthless, and love without power is impotent. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s time for powerful love. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s time to stop hiding from your desire and time to embrace your healthy sense of DESERVING. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you want MORE…in love and in life, say YES below.<\/span><\/p>\n

Xoxo, Violet<\/span><\/p>\n

Violet<\/span><\/p>\n<\/span>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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