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What\u2019s the most important habit to break right now?<\/p>\n
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This time of year is all about letting go of old stories, challenging our limiting beliefs, and setting ourselves up for success in 2020 — in life and in love.<\/p>\n
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One of the biggest problems I see during this time — which could instead be a time of optimism and preparation — is women getting stuck in unhealthy thinking.<\/p>\n
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When you have a break from your normal routine (which many of us do during the holidays), do you ever feel like you\u2019ve got too much time to think?<\/p>\n
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How often have you noticed a little reminiscing suddenly spiral into self-doubt?<\/p>\n
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Have you ever allowed being heartbroken to cause you to feel \u201cmind-broken\u201d — analyzing old memories and being super hard on yourself?<\/p>\n
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I know what a big challenge this is, because I\u2019ve seen so many women get \u201cstuck\u201d this time of year\u2026<\/p>\n
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Instead of celebrating what went well, they fixate on what wasn\u2019t perfect…which takes the wind out of the New Year\u2019s sail \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n
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A woman I worked with initially didn\u2019t believe love was possible for her. She had almost given up.<\/p>\n
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Within weeks of working together to shift her beliefs and align her mind\/body\/spirit, she met an incredible man.<\/p>\n
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Not only did he end up proposing to her 8 months later, but he also bought her a new car this Christmas. Like the bow-on-top in the driveway sort of thing. Literally!<\/p>\n
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When she texted me the picture I almost thought it was a joke!<\/p>\n
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As she proved, negative thinking might be the most important habit we break.<\/p>\n
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Why?<\/p>\n
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Beliefs are like living organisms — they grow, whether they\u2019re good or their bad.<\/p>\n
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Like Mae West said, \u201ctoo much of a good thing is wonderful\u201d<\/p>\n
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But too much of a bad thing can ruin more than just a moment…<\/p>\n
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It can create a toxic thought loop that keeps you just out of reach of your dreams…single for too long…3 month or shorter relationships…settling for the wrong one.<\/p>\n
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You are too awesome to waste this precious time of year on unhealthy beliefs leading to unhealthy habits and then watching another day, month, or year goes by\u2026<\/p>\n
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You have so much love to give, so much beauty to be admired, and so much captivating complexity to be appreciated, and it\u2019s been locked away for too long.<\/p>\n
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You deserve 2020 to literally be the BEST YEAR of YOUR LIFE!<\/p>\n
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And when a woman is lit up in love, and able to give her radiance to the world, not only do you light up in all the other parts of your life, but the entire planet receives your divine feminine wisdom.<\/p>\n
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I\u2019ve seen so many women find their person and watch their career and their creativity take off.<\/p>\n
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Now is not the time to let our old negativity carry it\u2019s cloak into the future. It\u2019s time for something fresh. Don\u2019t miss it \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n
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Xoxo,<\/p>\n
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Violet<\/p>\n