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Have you ever felt your love life dwindle into nothing? No prospects, no fun?<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Have you ever had a relationship that started out hot and sweet, but got super boring super fast, and all of a sudden there\u2019s nothing to talk about?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n When we lack creativity in our love life, relationships get boring, we get burnt out on dating, and we lose touch with ourselves.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n But when you keep the creative juices flowing, you\u2019ll always be meeting new prospects and feeling alive and vibrant about love. And when you start a new relationship, it will get better and better instead of fizzling out.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n The key is to stay in touch with your own creativity.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n This might look like painting, or cooking, or taking a new class.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Or it might look like salsa dancing, a meet-up group, or a solo trip somewhere you feel called.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n So many women put their lives on hold, for their work\/career, or because they\u2019re waiting for their partner to do all these things with.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Don\u2019t wait to live your best life!<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n While living your best life is not enough to attract your partner (you also have to have the right skills and energy for dating),<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n It certainly makes dating and relationships more fun and more likely to last.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Would you rather hang out with someone inspiring, brilliant, and dynamic?<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Or someone who just talks about their work and the traffic?<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n I always encourage my clients, no matter if they\u2019re just starting to date again after a few years of a dry spell, or if they\u2019ve been dating unsuccessfully for a long time, to be sure they date themselves too.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n You have to know your desires and passions and follow them.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n When I met Jason, I was taking weekly pottery classes and dance classes, I had a part time job that I loved as a hobby (giving Reiki sessions), and I even went to Japan by myself for 10 days to see the cherry blossoms.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n He found it totally magnetic that my life was so rich and full.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n It was in stark contrast to the last woman he had dated, who was in a total rut in her life…while they were together for 4 years and it never led to moving in together or talking about marriage, he dated me for 8 months and then proposed.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Living your most creative life captivates the masculine, makes you more happy, keeps you young, and brings new people into your life.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n And just as importantly, creativity is related to our sensuality and femininity, since our creative chakra (our second chakra) is the same place as enjoyment, pleasure, emotion, and sexuality.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n