
My Divine Union love story.
I had a sexless marriage in my twenties, followed by eight years of exhausting dating.
Then my now husband came to me in a dream. Literally.
Three weeks later he approached me in real life, at an event on lucid dreaming, and proposed 9 mo later at Burning Man.
Over a decade in, we are still married, and still having soul shaking sex. We have travelled the world, have two kids, and both lead companies guiding people toward lasting love.
As a cosmic matchmaker for over 15 years, I have helped hundreds of people find the one, or the many for poly folks, on a foundation of trust, truth, and devotion.
As a survivor of incest and complex trauma, I want to live in a world where all love is holy, all children are safe, and all sex is consensual.





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