by Violet | Oct 21, 2018 | General
My mom used to say “if you can’t say something nice, don’t say anything at all…” Have you heard that advice before? Do you agree or disagree? While there is some wisdom to this phrase, I’ve found it gets a lot of women in trouble! It makes them think they have to...
by Violet | Oct 18, 2018 | General
The myth is that men have commitment issues… The truth is that all people, including women, have commitment issues. Do you have a hard time moving a relationship along or inspiring your partner to commit? We oftentimes would rather hold onto our fear and our...
by Violet | Oct 17, 2018 | General
The myth is that time heals all wounds. The truth is that skill heals all wounds. Feeling stuck on an ex? Afraid to date again? Getting over an ex can be tough… We’d like to bounce back, but when you’ve fallen hard for someone, thought he was the one, or just gotten...
by Violet | Oct 10, 2018 | General
The myth is that you shouldn’t be afraid… The truth is that you should be afraid. Pretending we don’t have fear keeps us closed off in our hearts, and naive. It suppresses this basic human emotion which has a ton of power for us if we pay attention to it. Ironically...
by Violet | Oct 8, 2018 | General
The last week or so I’ve been writing about the healthy (versus unhealthy) masculine. And this final part in the five part series is one of the most important. Why even care about healthy masculine at a time like this? Because we need male allies — men who...
