by Violet | Nov 28, 2017 | General
I keep hearing from so many women…”he says I’m too in my masculine…but what does that even mean? I wear lipstick, I look nice, what is he talking about?” I want to clear up some myths and explain what this actually means. One of the myths is that you can’t...
by Violet | Nov 24, 2017 | General
If you’re not in relationship, I know the holidays can be a tough time. I can’t tell you how many times I had Thanksgiving Day single, and in fact, for whatever reason, I had three major breakups right before Thanksgiving, a few weeks before Thanksgiving....
by Violet | Nov 24, 2017 | General
Thanksgiving Day is a super important time to connect with friends and loved ones, and sometimes it can feel so lonely to be sitting solo at a big table of couples. If you don’t have a romantic partner, this is an important time to start envisioning the story of...
by Elizabeth Johnson | Nov 19, 2017 | General
We oftentimes hide the parts of ourselves we’re ashamed of…even from our partners. My favorite things to hide? I used to be embarrassed to admit that I’m a survivor of incest, that I’m mildly addicted to work and to food (as a way to avoid my feelings), and that I...
by Violet | Nov 16, 2017 | General
He doesn’t even live here! He already has two kids! When do you know if you should just cut something off? How do you EVEN KNOW what sort of trauma, or baggage, or crazy stories he is bringing into the relationship? Sometimes that stuff doesn’t get...
by Violet | Nov 13, 2017 | General
When I went through my divorce, for the first three years after that, I literally felt like I needed to tell everyone that I went on a date with that I had been married and that I went through a divorce. It was almost...
by Violet | Nov 12, 2017 | General
Do you feel like men don’t ever want to commit? Do you use the excuse that “they’re just guys, they don’t really want a relationship” Well, that’s B.S. And by B.S. I mean a Belief System. It’s your Belief System that says men don’t want to commit. My Belief System is...
by Violet | Nov 9, 2017 | General
I’m all for relationships I think that love and sex combined are the best things in life… the essence of life, the glue that holds us together. YUM! But did you know the average person spends 5 years single and looking for love in between relationships? Do...
by Violet | Nov 7, 2017 | General
We hear this term baggage thrown around all the time… “He has baggage, or he has a crazy ex, or he’s been divorced, or he has kids” And it can be really easy to label a potential partner as having too much baggage. Ironically, we can actually...
by Violet | Nov 5, 2017 | General
Recently I wrote about VITAMIN LOVE…about stopping it with junk-food men and getting the REAL deal which will nourish you for a lifetime. So what is a REAL deal partnership? How do you know it’s VITAMIN LOVE? (and not skittles lol) The relationships that stand...
by Violet | Nov 3, 2017 | General
So many women are dealing with junk-food men these days. A few random messages from guys online. An ex that pops back up every once in awhile for a little fun. Or a fantasy-crush on a guy who’s not even available. These are junk-food men. They make you feel...
